i’m a 15 year old girl and idk what to do now
Submitted June 15, 2020, 3:26 p.m. by randomoose123so i’ve always hated men lol for obvious reasons but i stumbled across this sub during quarantine and you all confirmed everything i’ve feared about men’s nature. i used to think i was a psycho or something was deeply wrong with me for hating men so much and not feeling any empathy towards them but now i realize i’m not alone and i have every reason to feel this way.
browsing through this sub i truly believe we’re fucked and nothing will ever get better in the world as long as men are still alive and in power and this is so depressing and hard to accept. i’m a really emotional and compassionate person so knowing that the world will never change and that i can never help make it change just makes me wanna die not gonna lie because what’s the point in being alive you know
do you girls have any tips for me to cope with this because it’s really bringing me down and there’s no one in my life i can talk to about these things, all my friends already think i’m too radical and extreme and my family is muslim a.k.a. they believe in possibly the most misogynistic fucked up religion so i don’t have anyone at all
Hi, you’re at a difficult age. I remember when I was 15 it’s when you start being confronted with all your possible “roles” in the world, how people see you, your sexuality, & you start becoming aware of the fucked up shit against you that you perhaps didn’t notice as a child.
My advice to you: say FUCK IT! Fuck all the roles you’re supposed to play for everyone else, fuck all the time and energy trying to tame your body and look into something “enough” for them, fuck today’s view of relationships in which females are being viewed as more and more disposable.
This is what will save you: promise your life to yourself, focus on your internal development, your art, your dreams, your plants, your pets, your friends. When you are 16 and can start driving and working relish in all the steps toward your independence. Be smart, save money, focus on the long game. Where do you want to travel? Would you ever start a business? What experiences do you want to have before 18 and after?
Thank you! You’re right, I need to start living my life for myself and on my own terms instead of focusing on all the atrocities I can’t change.
I have a Muslim background too. I’ve hated Islam since I was a young girl and I hate the people who uphold and believe in the religion like the misogynist, idiotic pigs they are. My advice to you is to be selfish. Care about yourself, your goals, your dreams, your dignity, and your humanity. I would say dedicate your life to helping women and girls, but I don’t even think this is necessary as, frankly, most women are undeserving of radfem’s help. You’re young and you’re clearly smart. If you can get into positions of power, then do so. Get a career, education, or begin a business that is actually worth something (like don’t go to fucking beauty school or major in something stupid). Don’t expend any energy or money on moids, including your fathers and brothers. And please don’t birth sons. Just remember that boys/men have ruined women’s lives and the world because of their nature. Women/girls in the first world are brainwashed idiots that don’t realize how volatile our rights and humanity are even though the majority of women living in 2nd and 3rd world countries are treated like slaves, incubators, and shit. And we know this. It’s not like this is secret information. We wouldn’t be in this environmental, economical, social, misogynist, violent, racist shithole that we call our world if it weren’t for all the men in power and the fact that there are too many males. In addition to the self-sabotaging retarded women that exist as well, of course.
Yes, there’s little point to trying to change anything as long as males continue to exist, but that doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy your life with what you can.
Thanks! I’ll just focus on myself and I’m never planning on having children that’s for sure, especially not males. I’d rather just live a good life with no ties to any man especially considering my dad would want me married to a muslim man and we know how especially fucked up those are
Really love that I see so many exmuslims here.
first of all, my condolences on your mother being religious. just ugh.
second of all, live your life to the fullest, believe in yourself and read up on some books and literature of more spiritual and-or feminist persuasion.
my personal recs are:
for spirituality; Tao Te Ching by Lao Tzu (the feminine principle is God so to speak in Taoism), Florence Scovel Shinn's books (on spiritual work and some Christian influences), Neville Goddard's essays on power of the subconscious (feminine principle) and imagination, some Christian influences be warned, Sufism (some Muslim influences), try out yoga, meditation, spiritual prayer, relaxation methods to cope with the anger and hatred.
for feminism and past history of womenkind across the world; Andrea Dworkin, Max Dashu, Valerie Solanas, Merlin Stone, Marija Gimbutas, Barbara G Walker
Don't get too down or sad. I am not saying things will change, but survival is key here and the way things are going patriarchies around the world are already self-destroying themselves. Step aside and watch the circus freak show go on. Don't give too much of a fuck, and work on yourself and your own spiritual and individual progress and self-realization. Cheers
Thank you! I’ll definitely check those books out!
The best cope is studying hard, going to a good college, and picking a college major/career track that will make you rich. Become a doctor, programmer, or attorney and you will have enough money to live your life however you want wherever your want.
Thanks! I plan on doing law!
Bruh, you were born a Muslim woman with a mind of her own, that's literally life on hardest mode. My condolences.
Please tread carefully. Stay true to yourself as much as possible but please make sure you stay safe. Your male family members do not love you unconditionally. Never forget that. Never underestimate how brutal they are willing to be in order to make you submit. Good luck
Thank you! And don’t worry, I know my male relatives will disown me if they ever found out I left Islam, I’m definitely cutting them off when I’m older.
Great idea. I went to school with a Muslim girl who left her family at 19 and went travelling around the world. She doesn't wear a hijab, she's openly bissexual and a free spirit living her best life now at age 28. Her sister got married to a disgusting balding man in his 30s when she was only 17 and is stuck at home with 3 kids. Such a stark difference. Your life will have obstacles but you can get away. Study hard, work hard, and get out of there whenever you can
hey i’m 16 turning 17 this month and i’m from a muslim family too unfortunately :( if you ever wanna talk you can pm me
Focus on bettering yourself. Be as independent as possible. Your goal should be to have enough money to live by yourself and never need to work because your investments pay all your bills.
Found a radical feminist, go fuck your self you uneducated SJW cunt
Go get gangraped you butthurt incel faggot
Textbook example of XY chromoid down syndrome. You go on the blackpill feminism sub and complain about misandry. It should be mandatory for failed abortions like you to be publicly executed.
Just cope by getting a boyfriend that's 'totally different' from other guys and pretend none of it's real if affects you too much.
over my dead body lmao
Remember girls, no positivity! Sorry but them's the rules, read the sticky. https://www.reddit.com/r/BlackPillFeminism/comments/entax4/what_is_black_pill_feminism/
You need to get your career in check and move out of your house as soon as possible. That's what i'm doing. I'm from the Middle East. Don't ever let a guy dictate what you should and should not do.
I am here for you if you need a friend. Talk to me. i can give you my instagram if it makes you feel better.