I feel like I’m going insane.

Submitted June 14, 2020, 12:18 a.m. by alreadytooken

I know this is a women-centered community and I’m a dude, but I hope that’s ok.

Today a dude I went to college with came out as a “trans woman”. A dude with a big fucking beard and a hairy chest. A dude who was born, raised, hit puberty as, and was socialized as a man. A dude who has a cock and fucks like a man. A dude who I knew to be a little creepy at parties and tried to sleep with women who weren’t interested.

And now he thinks he can just up and decide he’s a woman. Honestly I just started laughing when I saw it on social media. It’s just so patently absurd I don’t even know how to respond. He’s the second person I’ve known personally to come out as trans. The other one wasn’t much different — late 20s, depressed, always acted like a dude, then one day BOOM 💥 he wears dresses and cut his nuts off so he’s a woman and a lesbian.

It doesn’t even affect me as I’m not displaced in any way by some white dude claiming to be a woman, but I just wanted to chime in as a dude who thinks these people are out of their gourds.

10 comments recovered from the Pushshift database.
PiccioneDentato · June 27, 2020, 1:24 p.m.

A dude who I knew to be a little creepy at parties and tried to sleep with women who weren’t interested.

There's your answer.

Eventually this movement will end when the creeps will realize it cannot allow them easier access to women.

BoomerRumer · June 23, 2020, 1:40 p.m.

I think it's safe to say the ladies here appreciate thoughtful dudes such as yourself.

nosleepforthedreamer · June 14, 2020, 8:31 p.m.

I’m going insane with fury.... went off screaming about them on an anti-TRA sub but expressed desire not to feel vindictive. Of course they came and reminded me why I’m starting to feel that way in the first place.

rinabean · June 14, 2020, 6:31 a.m.

Did he actually cut his nuts off? The straight ones hardly ever do. They're just perverts, they love being men.

dyke4dyke4dyke · June 14, 2020, 3:56 a.m. · 1 reply

we need more men to be vocal about their opinions on this since women's opinions are ridiculed categorically

MRH2 · June 14, 2020, 4:31 p.m.

I'm here, a man and a radical feminist. I can't do too much at work without getting in trouble, but I have had quiet talks with teenagers who are thinking of going the transgender route. I just wish I had known all of this couple of years earlier, there are a few students that it's too late to help.

naxiai · June 13, 2020, 9:19 p.m.

Women have been watching this happen for awhile now. I wish more men were on our side with seeing how wrong all of this is. You might like to check out r/GenderCriticalGuys

EssentialLady · June 13, 2020, 9:11 p.m.

You aren't crazy, but you are in the minority...we all see it but few have the courage to say anything because they will get shouted down. Please do what you can not to let them take female sports and all female education away from real females. Real women are being shouted down by people who have their own agendas. It's so frustrating.

Grassyknow · June 13, 2020, 8:48 p.m.

The criminals are running the asylum. You’re not insane

jbjosh100 · June 13, 2020, 8:01 p.m.

!remindme 1 hour