Yes, it is just a fetish

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sara🛡speaking as itsafetish.org moderator🛡 · Sept. 14, 2021, 8:17 a.m.
winters_frostIHM = I hate men · June 23, 2020, 9:34 a.m. · 4 replies

My guess is that this is from asktransgender and that the comments will all say "nope it's not a fetish you're totally valid!" or "who cares if it is a fetish or not you're still totally valid!"

LovelyMareReality doesn't care about your identity · June 23, 2020, 9:55 a.m. · 2 replies

You're right.

Tiid-DovahA flower in the mirror · June 23, 2020, 10:41 a.m.

As if there was any doubt.

sake_maki · June 23, 2020, 6:25 p.m. · 1 reply

You would think at least the Truscums would be offended that he said he wishes to get dysphoria. Or maybe they've all been driven out of that sub by the tucutes and agps.

winters_frostIHM = I hate men · June 24, 2020, 3:57 a.m. · 1 reply

They are. Truscums are not popular among mainstream trans/lgbt groups. According to r/truscum, places like traaaaa and asktransgender ban truscums on sight as part of their rules, and truscums are like Gencyn's second favorite group of people to make fun of after TERFs (have seen them make often fun of Blaire White for example).

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chocolatecockroach · June 23, 2020, 4:06 p.m.

“All cis girls feel like this and get turned on by being feminine”

gencritjen · June 23, 2020, 5:34 p.m.

This, as well as explaining to them that their sexual arousal isn’t in fact sexual arousal, it’s gender euphoria!

aislov · June 24, 2020, 2:02 a.m.

He's valid because everyone else there who hasn't internalized homophobia, has a fetish!

Tiid-DovahA flower in the mirror · June 23, 2020, 9:50 a.m. · 1 reply

Yep, from the way it's described this is totally a fetish. He even understands (but denies) the fact himself.

ChristieFox · June 23, 2020, 10:25 a.m.

I'm still somehow amazed that someone calls it what it is, although very unhappy about it.

And yeah, I get it. Not a "cool" fetish in the boy group. Still, no reason to take hormones and full-blown surgery just because you like to wear some feminine clothes when horny.

BroncosDodgersBJJ · June 23, 2020, 10:17 a.m. · 1 reply

Just jerk off to the thought of being a woman every night. That simple dude.

EggEaterWifeBeater · June 23, 2020, 12:55 p.m. · 1 reply

Yeah like a normal person.... sheesh.

BroncosDodgersBJJ · June 23, 2020, 1:55 p.m.

Eh, there's weirder fetishes. Just don't mutilate yourself and ruin your body chemistry to get off, because it's not gonna go how you think.

jetpatch · June 23, 2020, 11:12 a.m. · 1 reply

Give it a couple of years to escalate and you'll be as sure as the rest of them ...

Then 2 years after you've had full srs you will suddenly realise it was all a terrible mistake.

gencritjen · June 23, 2020, 5:32 p.m.

They have a saying in the trans community:

Q: What’s the difference between being a cross dresser and being transgender?
A: About two years.”

jenkem92 · June 23, 2020, 11:23 a.m. · 6 replies

I don't understand why the community pushes people to become trans over an obvious cross-dressing fetish. Like, you're really going to push people to take HRT, and possibly get mutilated at some point, all to serve a sexual desire? Just buy some bras, cross-dress, and jerk off.

octopushotdog · June 23, 2020, 12:22 p.m. · 1 reply

Seriously. Who cares what you get up to in your own time so long as it's not illegal and isn't hurting anyone? Go buy your own lady clothes or whatever and indulge your fetish if you want. It doesn't have to get deeper than that.

Tiid-DovahA flower in the mirror · June 23, 2020, 12:49 p.m.

The cult needs to grow in strength. So they utilise every opportunity to bring more neophytes to their ranks.

ItsOkayToBeKaren · June 23, 2020, 1:41 p.m. · 3 replies

They do it so they feel less weird about their own fetish.

Rubrbiskit · June 23, 2020, 3:22 p.m.

Yea fucking up your hormonal balance and cutting your cock off is SO much less weird than wearing panties while masturbating. I'll never understand these people.

gcradfemalt · June 24, 2020, 12:58 a.m.

“I’m not a crossdressing fetishist! I’m a protected class!

INeedSomeTime1 · June 24, 2020, 2:49 a.m.

Certainly they feel shame about it so coping with it by thinking they are trans, helps allievate their distress about their fetish. So easy to mistake it with dysphoria...

montgomery-parks · June 23, 2020, 7 p.m.

It’s part of the fetish that other people validate them as women. If it’s a private thing they don’t get a kick out of pushing it on other people.

acciowomensrights · June 23, 2020, 7:03 p.m. · 1 reply

I have to wonder if there's some astroturfing going on. I'm always curious to know if Russia's troll farms are encouraging a whole generation of western men to neuter themselves.

JustOutChilling · June 23, 2020, 11:17 p.m.

Maybe it's for the best.

PRIME_MUNSTER · June 24, 2020, 1:13 a.m.
gendercritfem · June 24, 2020, 4:08 a.m.

I don't understand why the community pushes people to become trans over an obvious cross-dressing fetish.

These people are "the community".

chmclctthrt1 · June 23, 2020, 11:35 a.m. · 1 reply

Lucky for him, when he transitions and the hormones kill his sex drive he wont have sex-based desires to be feminine anymore

Wait...

WorstRengarKR · June 23, 2020, 4:29 p.m. · 1 reply

Which begets the 43% statistic

chmclctthrt1 · June 23, 2020, 4:30 p.m.

What? No, no, that's totally because society is mean to them uwu

glitterjulia2 · June 23, 2020, 12:27 p.m.

You're a woman babe!!1

kabloona · June 23, 2020, 12:40 p.m. · 2 replies

Reminds me of the young guy who had a orchiectomy and woke up after surgery and realized it was all a huge mistake and that his whole attraction to being trans was tied to his sexuality and without testosterone he had no sexual desires anymore and certainly no desire to be trans. He had been brainwashed and felt absolutely hopeless about his future. Luckily another guy who had gone through the exact same situation took him under wing and was talking him through it. Nuts, isn't it?

alotofgraphs · June 23, 2020, 2:31 p.m. · 3 replies

More like no nuts.

gencritjen · June 23, 2020, 5:37 p.m.

Actual lol!

Elelavrie · June 23, 2020, 6:19 p.m.

"Bah-dum-tssssh!" 🥁

sake_maki · June 23, 2020, 6:33 p.m. · 1 reply

Now that was low-hanging fruit lol

UGHToastIU · June 23, 2020, 9:35 p.m.

More like no hanging fruit.

gcaccountbanmefools · June 24, 2020, 11:49 a.m. · 1 reply

Is there an article or something about this story? I’d be curious to read

Caesim · June 24, 2020, 3:27 p.m. · 1 reply

Maybe you can read in r/detrans there're many people who have experienced similar things and the more experienced are great at giving support.

Otherwise, I found this post on this sub:

https://www.reddit.com/r/itsafetish/comments/cexejm/in_some_way_transitioning_does_seem_to_cure_them/

GeorgiaMRomero · June 23, 2020, 12:42 p.m.

Insightful guy.

Too bad he was asking the wrong people.

SslimReaperr · June 23, 2020, 7:49 p.m.

Biology doesn’t exist! Your mental illness should be encouraged !! ;-)

kahluuaaaaa · June 23, 2020, 8:14 p.m.

Sounds like someone just wishes he had a community of people to relate to, because that's totally absent in all other parts of his life, probably because he spends too much time in front of the computer in pursuit of the coom

Thepunchbagofsociety · June 25, 2020, 1:40 p.m.

why don’t guys like thar just become drag queens?