The line between their "gender" and sexuality is so blurred that it's nonexistent

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sarašŸ›”speaking as itsafetish.org moderatoršŸ›” · Sept. 14, 2021, 8:17 a.m.
OoFreeSouloO · June 25, 2020, 10:42 a.m. · 1 reply

"Cis guys don't want to be lesbians"

Meanwhile practically every cis straight guy wishing they were lesbians at one point or another in their lives šŸ™ƒ

ComedicDepression · June 25, 2020, 1:16 p.m. · 1 reply

I only respond to this because I replied to your comment earlier and, out of curiosity, I read through your comments. I will say that the "normal" straight guy is not wishing to be a lesbian or anything. The people that do that are bizarre and weird

This isn't intended to be a "not all men" type of thing, but for real most men do not feel... whatever that is

OoFreeSouloO · June 25, 2020, 1:36 p.m. · 1 reply

I'm super glad to know that. Anyway, with me you don't need to get defensive, actually just a few days ago I was accused of pushing that "not all men" narrative LOL (I'm not a feminist, despite supporting feminism).

As a lesbian though, I'm unfortunately prone to attract the creepiest of guys so maybe I'm biased. Truth is I have no way to know when a guy is "creepy" or not and many guys make inappropriate remarks towards us lesbians or bi women... I wish this wasnt true but it is. And it's so disgusting and uncomfortable. So I hardly ever come out to guys... I'm glad you're not like them :).

ComedicDepression · June 25, 2020, 1:44 p.m. · 1 reply

Thank you for your words.

I suppose this is subjective but I really don't feel like I'm defensive over those issues, I stated what I stated in order to prove my CV re: not being a disgusting creep. Perhaps that is a wrong-minded move (I'm open to constructive criticism)

Regardless, I support your point and will stop reading your comments.

P.S. I will say that the reason why I began reading through your history is because as a, for-all-intents-and-purposes a straight white man, I have never really gotten a view of what it like being a homosexual women outside of porn (knowing that porn is absurd). I learned a lot from you; thank you

OoFreeSouloO · June 25, 2020, 1:54 p.m. · 1 reply

Nah, everything's fine! Take care :)

ComedicDepression · June 25, 2020, 4:58 p.m.

you too!

terfdotcom · June 25, 2020, 10:43 a.m.

So you know that these aren't a minority of people on trans subreddits:

The posts have 400, 200 and 3700 upvotes, respectively

winters_frostIHM = I hate men · June 25, 2020, 11:12 a.m.

- If you (male) want to be a lesbian then you're trans
- im cis male and I want to be a lesbian
- then you're trans, QED

ah, the transcult's most 2nd most popular logical fallacy at work, affirming the consequent

it's almost literally exactly the same as one of the wikipedia examples

In Catch-22, the chaplain is interrogated for supposedly being "Washington Irving"/"Irving Washington", who has been blocking out large portions of soldiers' letters home. The colonel has found such a letter, but with the Chaplain's name signed.
- "You can read, though, can't you?" the colonel persevered sarcastically. "The author signed his name."
- "That's my name there."
- "Then you wrote it. Q.E.D."

if someone else who is better at semantics than me is seeing it differently and that I have it wrong, please do correct me

GCnewb · June 25, 2020, 11:27 a.m.

It puts the lotion on its skin or else it gets the hose again.

shellyb823 · June 25, 2020, 11:47 a.m. · 2 replies

Every guy Iā€™ve now since the 90ā€™s, that wasnā€™t gay, have told me they are a lesbian because they like women too. Out of the gay men Iā€™ve known, a few have told me that they feel more comfortable dressing and looking like a women then a man. Me personally, I am more comfortable being around a gay man who dresses or looks more feminine then a straight man who says heā€™s a lesbian.

winters_frostIHM = I hate men · June 25, 2020, 4:13 p.m. · 1 reply

Me personally, I am more comfortable being around a gay man who dresses or looks more feminine then a straight man who says heā€™s a lesbian.

Seconding this. Have an effeminate gay friend that me and other girl friends treat as "one of us" and don't mind him following into women's bathroom to talk with us. Still trust him far more than any TIM claiming to be a woman.

shellyb823 · June 25, 2020, 5:37 p.m.

Yup Iā€™ve know to many douche bag teen guys who used the ā€œbut Iā€™m a a girl. A lesbian since I like girls tooā€ And the straight teen boys who pretended to be gay to get close to girls too. That Bloodhound Gang song ā€œI wish I was gay so I could get chicksā€ was made for a reason.

Radfemmer · June 29, 2020, 12:40 p.m.

This. It has been the oldest grossest joke ever made by all the dudes since homosexuality started to become more visible in pop culture. That's why I laugh whenever any dude in a dress says he is a lesbian, it's sooo see through.

annatheginguh · June 25, 2020, 2:14 p.m.

If you're a "cis guy" but you want to be a lesbian there's a good chance your trans

#N O

06549rhow do you do fellow females · June 26, 2020, 3:59 a.m.

Reminds me of all of the stories about TIMs ā€œbecomingā€ their exes and even using the same name šŸ˜°

finejuggler · June 26, 2020, 11:14 a.m.

Holy shit I didnā€™t realize how bad it was

cosmitz · June 29, 2020, 4:47 a.m.

If i like to roleplay as a woman in my RPGs because i find the concept more interesting than another stronk buff dude does that make me RPG-trans?