TIM wants to know if he can be a 'traditional mother'.

Submitted June 25, 2020, 2:22 p.m. by urban_wallflower
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sara🛡speaking as itsafetish.org moderator🛡 · Sept. 14, 2021, 8:17 a.m.
bendercritical · June 25, 2020, 3:19 p.m. · 1 reply

Nothing says "traditional mother" like impregnating your girlfriend. 🤪

As cringey as these women are, I really hope they pushed back against this creep and told him to GTFO. Jesus, not even conservative women can have a space to themselves without TIMs butting in.

TheGreatWhoDeeny · June 25, 2020, 3:48 p.m. · 1 reply

Nothing says "traditional mother" like impregnating your girlfriend.

At the end he mentioned "adoptive mother".

Doesn't make it any better of course.

Hopefully his girlfriend grows a brain and flees this inevitable nightmare.

Nothing good can come from this. The kid is nothing more than a prop in his fantasy.

bendercritical · June 25, 2020, 5:09 p.m.

I was figuring he was saying "potential adoptive mother" since TIMs usually push the lie that they're infertile to make themselves seem less intimidating to women. Wouldn't put it past him to use this line on his gf so he can trap her with an unplanned pregnancy.

Milkpilled · June 25, 2020, 4:02 p.m. · 1 reply

Child abuse. Many such cases

West_Pause · June 25, 2020, 10:23 p.m.

yeah. i can't believe i was convinced otherwise

streepsnstars · June 25, 2020, 4:13 p.m.

Puke

_Probably_Not_ · June 25, 2020, 4:24 p.m. · 2 replies

Or or, they could just both be a sort of mother figure and then kid can have two mothers? Literally this person is making it weird for a kid to have two motherly figures

WTFBTH · June 25, 2020, 5:40 p.m.

That’s because TIMs are the most homophobic people. Aching to be a part of the “queer community” but still consider themselves better than real lesbians because they secretly know that they’re REALLY in a straight relationship with extra steps.

Mattpilf · June 26, 2020, 3:28 a.m. · 1 reply

Literally this person is making it weird for a kid to have two motherly figures

Because it's r/RedPillWives. They believe everyone needs "a strong father figure" and "single mothers are destroying America", and blah blah blah. Other responses were just straight up homophobic, all children need a mother and a father, so two women and no man would be some abomination to their values..

So ya, within their own framework OP was actually very typical.

06549rhow do you do fellow females · June 25, 2020, 4:28 p.m.

You can’t be a mother by default, let alone a “traditional one”.

throwzdursun · June 25, 2020, 4:32 p.m. · 1 reply

i found his account and yes... he's even weirder than this. and yes, he's got a fetish.

PhoenixBurnsEternal · June 25, 2020, 10:33 p.m.

The stuck story prompt?? What an earth?? 🤢🤢🤢 And of course he spends a lot of time invested in video games, it's a stereotype for a reason

breadandrosestoo · June 25, 2020, 4:40 p.m.

Traditional mother, huh? Do 70% of the childcare, 80% of the housework while still working full time, and get no thanks and have people call you a frumpy Karen. That is motherhood today.

It's not a breast pump and a frilly french maid apron, you perv.

Erin42 · June 25, 2020, 5 p.m. · 1 reply

It's weird how he wants the roommate to be a father figure when roommate isn't even involved. It's not like a polygamy situation.

I mean, the entire thing is weird of course, but expecting an uninvolved third party to be a parental figure is extra weird to me.

black_truffle_cheese · June 26, 2020, 12:30 a.m.

That shows some serious instability right there. He said “roommate” not “best friend” or “guy who’s like a brother to me”. A dude that is there only because of _rent_ is never going to help with child rearing!!! In fact, he will probably start looking for another place as soon as pregnancy is confirmed.

This is just sheer narcissism! They see everyone as just actor in their little play, with no lives of their own. 🙄

exiledleftist · June 25, 2020, 5 p.m.

So... he's worried that him pretending to be a lesbian will make things confusing for his child, so he wants to make sure his child has a man around that's not pretending to be a lesbian to make things less confusing? I'm sorry, what?

hedaleksa · June 25, 2020, 7:01 p.m.

Why is he more concerned with his perceived style of parenting and not reflecting on why (validation) he wants to be a parent and if he has the skills to do so? Chances are this is a dude whose never changed a diaper or made a bottle much less ever taken care of a child at any age and yet here he is like “could I a man be a traditional stay at home house wife,” no disrespect to stay at home moms, full disrespect to this dude who sees it as a box to check on his list of female experiences that he thinks makes him a woman.

hanfiyyah · June 25, 2020, 7:51 p.m. · 1 reply

RedPillWives? What is it with them and going into literally the most female-exclusive, hostile spaces and begging for acceptance?

snackysnackeeesnacki · June 29, 2020, 8:33 a.m. · 1 reply

I’m sure they tore him apart

hanfiyyah · June 29, 2020, 9:19 a.m.

Lool found his profile. He is also a self-proclaimed member of the "alt right" and anti-choice:

"As I said, pro-life arguments are NOT about "policing bodies" they're about protecting unborn children. There is no big patriarchal "cOnTrOl TeH wOmEn" conspiracy to subjugate women, just people who are concerned about whether or not the termination of a fetus counts as murdering a child and what stage it would count as that.

It's NOT about policing YOUR body, it's about what to do with the little, defenseless body growing inside.

But you're barking at the wrong woman. While I find unnecessary abortions distasteful and a waste of both human life and medical supplies, I don't really feel any need to prevent it from happening within the first two trimesters. But like hell will any of my tax dollars pay for it."

PearlHarborFan · June 25, 2020, 9:23 p.m. · 1 reply

Never heard the term transsexual outside of trolls. I thought it was transgender?

ArteToLifeMale ally · June 26, 2020, 4:54 a.m.

Some transmeds still use it as a way of distancing themselves from the "everyone is valid" crowd.

lissomelight42 · June 25, 2020, 9:26 p.m.

Breaking news: Homophobic man worries his autogynephilic obsession with LARPing as a lesbian won't be a traditional enough(paternalistic enough?) upbringing for his potential child.

the world is weird

SslimReaperr · June 25, 2020, 9:36 p.m.

This whole post made me nauseous. Something about their whole spiel is sickening.

_kurfluffle_ · June 25, 2020, 11:10 p.m. · 1 reply

OP please tell me they flayed him alive, any sub with “red pill” in the name doesn’t cater to anyone outside of the standard traditional white conservative.

Dude clearly has a fetish for being a 50s wife. Must be nice when you don’t have to worry about your husband beating/ raping you, drug abuse, and being lobotomized

urban_wallflower · June 28, 2020, 5:39 a.m.

They were polite about it but they told him in not so many words that he isn't a woman and doesn't belong on the sub.

gothikgrape · June 26, 2020, midnight

This is literally a woman saying she’s worried about her child not having a father figure in a lesbian relationship there is absolutely no reason to be this disgustingly transphobic about a situation you know nothing about

moscles · June 26, 2020, 2:20 a.m.

Hate the implicit homophobia here too: lesbians can't raise kids traditionally? And why would a room mate be a father figure, just because he's the nearest person with a dick?

lwoass · June 26, 2020, 4:03 a.m.

damn that home of phobia really jumped out

jonny-reddit · June 26, 2020, 4:59 a.m.

"NO"

dogdogdogdo · June 26, 2020, 7:04 a.m.

Before you know, the solution will be to turn the girlfriend into a man.

TheNeopetsLabRay · June 26, 2020, 9:45 a.m.

Do we really want men being mothers when their understanding of the role comes from PornHub?

worldwithpyramids · June 27, 2020, 1:19 p.m.

We are so fucked.

oasisgidget · June 29, 2020, 10:40 a.m.

Kids got no chance

Anoukjuuh · June 29, 2020, 3:23 p.m.

She*