The reaction of a Trans woman who got rejected by her Tinder date. They had been texting for a couple of days. When they finally met on the date, it was obvious that she was Trans. So the Tinder date immediately refused to go through with it. Trans woman had told her she was female. [LGB Victory]

Submitted July 29, 2019, 2:23 p.m. by griffxx

https://www.lgbtqnation.com/2019/07/trans-woman-attacked-3-strangers-axe-shamed-date/

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SunflowerDevyl · July 29, 2019, 2:53 p.m. · 2 replies

Part of the treatment for transition really should include at least one intensive therapy session to be able to cope that a vast majority will not see them as their preferred sex.

This was really sad.

Grandterfismo · July 29, 2019, 4:01 p.m. · 1 reply

It used to require several months or years worth of therapy BEFORE transition to even get SRS because, surprise, surprise, trans people are mentally unstable. Of course that's gatekeeping now so hormones and SRS for all regardless of age, mental or physical health, or diagnosis of dysphoria.

evilterf69 · July 29, 2019, 8:58 p.m.

This is like... telling depressed people they don't need therapy, just to pretend they're happy and if they're actually sad to just listen to what their mental disease is telling them to do. It's reckless.

griffxx · July 29, 2019, 6:18 p.m. · 2 replies

Yes it should include this. But currently the TRAs, Transfeminists and their Allies are pushing for "Informed Consent." Basically if you feel you are Trans and will need HRT or T, you get a Gender Therapist tells you all the positive and negatives to the Transition process. After the information and signing a form saying you have been informed and consent to the treatment. Get HRT or T referral and you're on your way.

SunflowerDevyl · July 29, 2019, 6:22 p.m. · 1 reply

Funny how their idea of 'informed consent' doesn't extend to others.

griffxx · July 29, 2019, 7:30 p.m.

What do you expect of people who show narcissistic tendencies.

I think it's fairly dangerous. I don't care what the WHO says when they proclaimed Transgendism had nothing to do with mental illness. This might work for the cultures that have always had 3rd Gender Identities as part of their Culture.

This is not true in the Western Countries. They definitely do need to get rid of the middle man; which is what they call psychologist and psychiatrists.

ParasympatheticBear · July 30, 2019, 1:39 a.m. · 2 replies

Can’t we require the therapy without moving the decision from the individual?

I’m not in favor of others being give control over another persons body.

griffxx · July 30, 2019, 3:02 a.m.

But it's not about being a "gatekeeper." It about seeing if they are mentally healthy enough to transition.

3lvy · July 30, 2019, 4:51 a.m. · 1 reply

If someone tells you they want to kill themselves you don't just go ''oh well it's your body, you can do what you want with it!'' or you don't tell someone who hears voices to do what the voices tell them to do, why is it different when someone wants to destroy their body? Hormone blockers fuck up with your body, it's being sold as a pause button while it will royally fuck up their quality of life for sure, and are we seriously even considering that it's in any way shape or form healthy to want to maim yourself?

I would rather they actually get help than become life long patients, which btw seems to be the goal.

ParasympatheticBear · July 30, 2019, 6:21 a.m.

Too much of a slippery slope. They aren’t trying to take their own life. To them it’s quite the opposite. Who am I to stop them.

AcerbicJackalope · July 29, 2019, 3:23 p.m. · 1 reply

How is this a victory? He attacked those poor people with an axe!

Because he actually went to jail over it?

griffxx · July 29, 2019, 6:22 p.m. · 1 reply

Because the Lesbian wasn't murder. Just Two days ago we were talking about TW claiming they had to be STEALTH on dating apps for there personal safety.

Here's how it broke down because a lesbian clocked them.

AcerbicJackalope · July 29, 2019, 10:13 p.m. · 1 reply

Oh! I'm stupid and misread the article - he tried to sucker a lesbian into dating him? That makes an unfortunate amount of sense, now that I think about it. It was written like it could've been over a straight man rejecting him, but of course he went on a ballistic, homophobic rampage and that's not spelled out in LGBT publications over concerns of transphobia. Blech.

I looked up the case, and of COURSE he's in women's prisons. I'm so happy no one died, though Rimmer's account is fucking harrowing.

Thank you for the info! <3 <3

griffxx · July 29, 2019, 10:36 p.m. · 1 reply

Did not get enough time; a 9 year sentence, out in 4.5 years with "good behavior." Even in a dress it's still BROs before HOs."

TW told her he was going to hurt people with an ax and it would be her fault. Did it an hour later in the 7-11 down the street. She didn't shame Him. Stealth broke down with a Lesbian. You know female people female people who make eye contact vs staring at their breast while they're talking.

This is another Common Wealth affiliate. They have some lax conviction rates when it comes to Male/men and violence and rape. Even Britain UK only has a [1.0 %] conviction rate for the crime of RAPE.

In the US, that's:

Premeditated Murder

Kidnapping X 3

Attempted 1st degree murder X 3

Attempted 2nd degree murder X 3

He's go to prison for a straight 20 years without the possibility of parole.

AcerbicJackalope · July 29, 2019, 10:51 p.m. · 1 reply

That's the other bit of victory I questioned, tbh. It's something, it's better than him getting off entirely, but still.

He's a fucking murderous bastard and should have rotted in prison, that or been put through rehabilitation so thorough he'd never, ever even think of doing something like this again. And not in the fucking women's prison, for Gaia's sake.

It's a global problem, that of ignoring rapists - I'm in the US, if I remember right, we have a 1% rate of men actually going to prison for rape, too. Fucking horrifying. Would we really have put him away for 20 years? He's still a white dude with parents who have connections, but, still, I hope.

griffxx · July 30, 2019, 1:15 a.m.

In the current GOP environment, where they hate all of us, but have a particular hard on for the Ts, I think he would spend some time in prison. And it wouldn't be a total of 4.5 years either.

The US has a higher conviction rate. I have to look to see what it is.

JulienMayfair · July 29, 2019, 3:32 p.m. · 2 replies

What's notable to me in the comments is the almost complete lack of empathy for the victims, kind of like the lack of empathy for the targets of Yaniv's legal harassment campaign.

“The first victim, Ben Rimmer, suffered a fractured nasal bone, eye socket and cheekbones."

This is no minor attack. That would probably require serious reconstructive surgery with possibilities for complications down the road.

I'm trying to think of a "gay guy goes on violent rampage after straight friend rebuffs his advances" story, and I'm not coming up with anything.

griffxx · July 29, 2019, 6:40 p.m.

And you probably never will. If anything, the Lesbian survived after clocking them. Remember that TW post that said a straight on is stealth on dating apps and straight men couldn't tell.

This is the Lesbian version of being absolutely seeing, when the time came for the date. All these TW's victims are proxies for this women.

What would you call this Fragile Trans Womanhood?

They don't care about the victims. Was anyone "actually" disabled.

This is one of these Activist Judges. There is no way in Hades, this person wouldn't of gotten 20 years straight time without parole in the US.

1. Premeditated

2. Considered kidnapping too.

3. Attempt murder

Whenever any of the members of the Trans Communities does something awful and unthinkable, the perpetrators go to the Trans Monopoly game and through the Mental Illness Community Chest to get a card.

Absolutely no accountability or responsibility.

When the Trans Lesbian Community started calling Lesbians "T*"**" just because they didn't want to date or fuck, what did they think the result of this frame would be?

AcerbicJackalope · July 29, 2019, 10:55 p.m. · 1 reply

And he almost fucking died. I mean, read this: https://www.nzherald.co.nz/world/news/article.cfm?c_id=2&objectid=12196662

Fucking harrowing.

3lvy · July 30, 2019, 4:40 a.m.

But he feels bad!/s

Enraging

copytree · July 29, 2019, 4:57 p.m. · 5 replies

Holy apologetics in the comments. One of them says something along the lines of “They should really rethink gun laws, there will be a lot of blood in the streets if we start defending ourselves.”

Defending yourselves from what now? Not getting a date?

BoobDoodles` · July 29, 2019, 5:07 p.m.

Right? There was nothing to defend from here. Got turned down for a date because they lied. Not a crime. What that bozo did afterwards, though, was definitely a crime. Hopefully they go to the proper prison.

SunflowerDevyl · July 29, 2019, 6:25 p.m.

And if any of those victims had been in possession of a gun, this attacker would be dead and they would be RRRREEEEEEing that even if this DID attack innocent bystanders it would be no reason for lethal force.

griffxx · July 29, 2019, 7:22 p.m.

Yes, defending themselves from Fragile Trans Womanhood. Once they started calling Lesbians "Terfs" in 2016, because they didn't want to date or fuck them. What did they expect would be the outcome?

These are just young women trying to figure out things. But what they did figure out, was that Trans women was a NO GO.

evilterf69 · July 29, 2019, 8:56 p.m. · 1 reply

Typical male behavior, being rejected by women is violence so needs to be met with more violent. Subhuman animals.

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rezkidsinloveThe mythological bi left-wing GC WoC · July 29, 2019, 10:07 p.m. · 1 reply

I read in one of the other LGB(T) subs, something along the lines of 'Transphobes often forget that Pride started out as a violent riot, and we're not afraid of going back to that if we have to.'

Just, so very.... :|

copytree · July 29, 2019, 10:10 p.m. · 1 reply

Oh, they were bludgeoning strangers with axes at Stonewall, now? Huh. TIL.

rezkidsinloveThe mythological bi left-wing GC WoC · July 29, 2019, 10:16 p.m.

Honestly, I wouldn't be surprised if that's what they genuinely thought.

Some people take 'rioting for a genuinely good cause' as 'NO HOLDS BARRED, ANYTHING-GOES, FREE FOR ALL!' ends-justify-the-means.

Chunkeeguy Unapologetic Genital Fetishist · July 29, 2019, 7:58 p.m. · 2 replies

Now in a women's prison?

griffxx · July 29, 2019, 10:48 p.m.

Yep. 9 years and 4.5 years for "Good Behavior". In the US they would have gotten 20 years without the possibility for parole.

Some_Khajiit · July 29, 2019, 8:45 p.m. · 1 reply

Only 9 years? What in the hell...

griffxx · July 29, 2019, 10:44 p.m.

4.5 years with "Good Behavior." Britain UK they have a [1.0 %] conviction rate for Rape. Australia is another Common Wealth affiliate. Very LAX with DUDES. The judge reminds me of the Judge who gave the Stanford swimmer 6 Months for rape.

BTW they most definitely used the Trans Mental Illness excuse.

smolbur · July 29, 2019, 11:35 p.m. · 1 reply

Let me guess. Now in a woman's prison?

griffxx · July 30, 2019, 1:17 a.m. · 1 reply

Yep! With a functioning penis.

LilianH · July 30, 2019, 2:13 a.m. · 1 reply

No, he had surgery in Thailand in 2014. His defence attempted to use it as an excuse for Karl's drug habit.

griffxx · July 30, 2019, 2:57 a.m.

Neo Vagina regret.

ParasympatheticBear · July 30, 2019, 1:43 a.m. · 1 reply

This is awful

griffxx · July 30, 2019, 2:58 a.m.

Yes it is. It's quite awful.

LilianH · July 30, 2019, 2:20 a.m.

This article covers the level of entitlement this person grew up with.

CallaAETHIOPICA · July 30, 2019, 9:29 a.m. · 1 reply

This is why I worry for people. Even if they state they aren’t interested in trans people this can happen. Supposedly these people are mentally stable though. I hate that this man is in a woman’s prison.

griffxx · July 30, 2019, 10:21 a.m.

Go to r- Gender_Critical evidently He has started to detransition in a prison for female prisoners.

darkestgradient · Aug. 24, 2019, 1:34 a.m. · 1 reply

It bugs me that the date is referred to as transphobic for not wanting to date a trans person.

griffxx · Aug. 24, 2019, 1:56 a.m. · 1 reply

She was lied to. Then when they met, she immediately stopped the date. But the Tinder date later called her to check up on them. That's when they threatened to hurt people with an ax, and it would be all her fault. This is after about 4 hours of texting over a 4 day period.

Video = Narcissistic Rage

darkestgradient · Aug. 24, 2019, 1:57 a.m. · 1 reply

Ugh exactly.

griffxx · Aug. 24, 2019, 10:58 a.m.

It's like there is a switch in some of their heads that gets flipped when they get rejected.

Some of them have been known to digitally stalk women. Quite a fair significant % are involved in computer technology careers from program developers to game developers to animators.