So this is the current state of r/actuallesbians

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DickFreeBacon You got some of that... XX? · July 9, 2020, 3:48 a.m. · 3 replies

How to spot fetishists

OoFreeSouloO Joanne Rowling is my Queen ๐Ÿ‘‘ · July 9, 2020, 6:33 a.m. · 2 replies

Exactly. I can't understand how there are still women in there and how they can't see how disturbing this is. I could immediately feel something is off about that

somegaysoon · July 9, 2020, 10:57 a.m. · 1 reply

I used to lurk there until I realized it was mostly transwomen, then moved on to another one that's unfortunately now private :( It used to be a little more subtle, now it's a complete takeover.

OoFreeSouloO Joanne Rowling is my Queen ๐Ÿ‘‘ · July 9, 2020, 11:34 a.m.

I was also a victim don't worry. At first, I didn't realise it. But after a while, I think 2 months, I saw a post claiming lesbians can like d*ck. And I was like waaaaaaaaait a damn minute ๐Ÿ˜‚ never ever again

You can join us at r/truelesbians :)

arnaq · July 10, 2020, 12:10 a.m.

He is so excited about being around teenage lesbians. That sub is nothing but grooming

MagretCrumblebump · July 9, 2020, 8:33 a.m.

How to spot fetishists

Autogynephillic perverts

AlsmaricXIItext · July 9, 2020, 2:43 p.m. · 2 replies

r/itsafetish was on the nose

BaristanSelmy · July 9, 2020, 4:35 p.m. · 1 reply

Serious question: if the subject of that late sub is raised on medical or psyche sub, say because of the release of a research paper, what happens ?

AlsmaricXIItext · July 9, 2020, 5:22 p.m.

Im sure it would be whitewashed, anything that doesn't fit the lefty narrative is braded as transphobia, as if we're actually scared of those nutjobs

vloravlora · July 9, 2020, 7:12 p.m. · 1 reply

what happened to that sub? it says its private, but theyre not letting anyone in, and saying you should go to MTF?

AlsmaricXIItext · July 9, 2020, 7:33 p.m.

Its either banned or private

ArtmausDen · July 9, 2020, 4:15 a.m. · 1 reply

Glad there are teens.
I sincerely hope it was commented by a teenager.

bigmamascarpet` · July 9, 2020, 4:19 a.m. · 2 replies

I looked up their profile and found they are in r/bisexualteens so I assume they are teen. Also why they got downvoted, they simply misread no need to hate

OoFreeSouloO Joanne Rowling is my Queen ๐Ÿ‘‘ · July 9, 2020, 6:35 a.m. · 1 reply

And another "lesbian" that is in fact a bi woman. I say this because of the flair "Lesbian and Awkward" and based on what you said.

bigmamascarpet` · July 9, 2020, 6:41 a.m. · 1 reply

You know I'm a young lesbian myself too (definitely not bi oh no) but I'm in bisexual's subs just for fun and entertainment, so maybe she is a lesbian or idk lol

OoFreeSouloO Joanne Rowling is my Queen ๐Ÿ‘‘ · July 9, 2020, 6:44 a.m.

Yeah, that could be also it. It depends on her "activity" and what she posts and comments in bi subs

ItsTERFOrNothin · July 9, 2020, 11:42 a.m.

They're either a teen or really like hanging around teens.

With trans people it's like 50/50...

haveanicedaytoo๐Ÿ’—๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’™ · July 9, 2020, 4:25 a.m. · 2 replies

Wanting vagina = transphobe

Wanting boobies = validating

bigmamascarpet` · July 9, 2020, 4:34 a.m. · 2 replies

Wait, isn't wanting boobies a preference ๐Ÿค” /s

They are hypocrites falling into their own trap

haveanicedaytoo๐Ÿ’—๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’™ · July 9, 2020, 4:39 a.m. · 1 reply

Boobies aren't genitals and only genital preference is wrong. Checkmate transphobes!

LOL... Omg I'm starting to think like them, this is scary...

criticallacitirc · July 9, 2020, 1:01 p.m.

But men with gynecomastia develop breasts, non-binary folks have breasts and and pre-opp trans men still have breasts. So being a lesbian who likes breasts is discriminatory and transphobic. The only correct identity is pansexual hermaphroditic slug.

KendallMintcake · July 9, 2020, 9:44 a.m.

What they mean is they want a pair of tiddies of their own to play with. Totally narc, totally fetishistic. And if they just owned up to this instead of trying to get the rest of us to give them a lady-boner by "validating" their "womanhood", I'd have more respect for them

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DuaSC77 · July 9, 2020, 10:57 a.m.

Isnโ€™t it amazing dealing with narcissists?

deadlysnek · July 9, 2020, 4:50 a.m.

Lol by this time of identifying as anything you want, if a trans woman identifies as lesbian and wants to date real lesbian woman, you can say you are a straight man so can't date them. Only like biological woman.

INeedSomeTime1 · July 9, 2020, 5:21 a.m. · 3 replies

I cringe when they call themselves "trans girls".

bigmamascarpet` · July 9, 2020, 5:23 a.m. · 4 replies

I cringe too when they call their penises "girlcocks"

DickFreeBacon You got some of that... XX? · July 9, 2020, 7:39 a.m. · 2 replies

Somehow I always read that word as "goldilocks" at first

bigmamascarpet` · July 9, 2020, 7:40 a.m.

Sorry I should have made space between lol

driftingdrifter · July 9, 2020, 11:18 a.m.

Breaking in to sleep in our beds, eat our porridge and then complain about it, sounds about right

ingvar-kinwip · July 9, 2020, 10:54 a.m.

Oh God oh no

MightyRed123 · July 9, 2020, 12:12 p.m. · 1 reply

I cringe the most when they call it 'girl dick'.....girls don't have dicks, NEVER will. The only place where this remotely existed in the past was fetish art and fetish porn comics, these fucking fetishists are ruining the whole lbg.

bigmamascarpet` · July 9, 2020, 12:40 p.m.

Yeah they are like "lesbians take that girl cock or you are transphobic"

Lyricana · July 10, 2020, 12:42 a.m.

My favorite is still "lady noodle." I've really seen this.

Aintneverdonenothin · July 9, 2020, 8:58 a.m.

I cringe when they're trans

JustYourAvgBot` · July 9, 2020, 9:06 a.m.

it reeks of infantilization. notice how itโ€™s never โ€œtrans boys,โ€ always โ€œtrans men.โ€

Madman969 · July 9, 2020, 6:24 a.m. · 4 replies

The only subreddit that is 100% lesbian centered and didn't bend to the trans inclusive is r/lesbians and it's a porn subreddit for the hetros lmfao.

bigmamascarpet` · July 9, 2020, 6:26 a.m. · 2 replies

I heard that r/truelesbians is also safe for now

BigStinkyNipples · July 9, 2020, 6:31 a.m. · 1 reply

Can confirm. The difference between maturity levels between there and AL is astounding lol.

ciaokhan` · July 9, 2020, 9:07 a.m. · 1 reply

Wise words from my wise old lesbian 'Bigstinkynipples'

BigStinkyNipples · July 10, 2020, 12:27 p.m.

Lmao made me snort

lissomelight42 unapologetically lez · July 9, 2020, 9:37 a.m.

it's where we all sought refuge when AL got unbearable

ElectronicScreen0` · July 9, 2020, 6:31 a.m. · 4 replies

out of interest has r/TwoXChromosomes bent to trans will yet?

Madman969 · July 9, 2020, 6:42 a.m. · 1 reply

Well, it seems they have a trans-women in the mods team so you have that, it's called "Two Chromosomes" and it's run by trans women. The irony is palpable

jpa96 · July 9, 2020, 7:31 a.m. · 2 replies

Call me crazy, but I think a subreddit called TwoXChromosomes should be ran and for people with two X chromosomes.

Feminist_Username · July 9, 2020, 9:14 a.m. · 1 reply

I got banned and asked if the mod team was really all XY and they sent vomit emojis and offered to send me "pussy pics"

jpa96 · July 9, 2020, 9:31 a.m.

Disgusting

denverkris terfuffle · July 9, 2020, 11:39 a.m. · 3 replies

Someone asked on there the other day if they name of the sub could be changed to something "more inclusive".

ItsTERFOrNothin · July 9, 2020, 11:44 a.m. · 1 reply

How about "AtLeastOneXChromosome"? Or "TooManyChromosomes"?

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Oppressinator · July 9, 2020, 5:31 p.m.

RIP the original water sub.

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LyGladiatrix` · July 9, 2020, 6:55 a.m. · 1 reply

Yeah, and I believe it did a lot of time ago. It says that they are trans inclusive and consider Transwomen women and apparently they have a trans moderator. So XX chromosomes isn't exactly a safe soece for actual women where they can talk and communicate with other actual women.

It's unfortunate that female specific subreddits are so boringly inclusive, go to PCOS and read the mod announcement.

It's fucking disgusting but luckily some posters there called them out on their bs.

Pcos is a women exclusive condition and we shouldn't care that transmen feel hurt for being remembered they are female and that Transwomen feel hurt because this awful condition excludes them because they are male!

librarylady1980 · July 9, 2020, 9:13 a.m.

Yeah I didn't get that about twox a few months ago and I made a comment that was downvoted to hell and then removed...because I thought a sub titled twxchromosomes was for people with two x chromosomes ๐Ÿ˜•. My bad

DownWthisSortOfThing · July 9, 2020, 11:35 a.m.

For sure. I got perma banned for commenting that intentionally misgendering someone is rude, but is not violence and should not be a fireable offense.

deviantvandal · July 9, 2020, 1:28 p.m.

I've heard that every mod is xy except one but shes in a relationship with a transwomen. I think that's why GC got banned, they couldn't infiltrate and take over like they do with every other women focused sub. Pcos just got taken over and the mods were removed and replaced by dudes and periods is their next target apparently.

revengeoftheroosters · July 9, 2020, 6:51 a.m. · 2 replies

Pretty much every porn subreddit for straight dudes bans trans women

BaristanSelmy · July 9, 2020, 9:28 a.m. · 1 reply

This is utterly hilarious if true.

revengeoftheroosters · July 9, 2020, 12:29 p.m. · 1 reply

It is true. Go to a subreddit like r/ lesbians and search the word trans. That subreddit has been very active for many years, and there isn't even one result.

BaristanSelmy · July 9, 2020, 3:03 p.m. · 1 reply

It would be beyond funny if, somehow, this was turned into a dramatic issue.

revengeoftheroosters · July 9, 2020, 7 p.m.

They wonโ€™t do it because they know the backlash would destroy their whole movement

MightyRed123 · July 9, 2020, 12:17 p.m.

Good, we don't want to see that shit hahaha

ActualReflection1472 · July 9, 2020, 8:29 a.m. · 3 replies

Maybe that's the key to get the woke reddit bros to understand the mess of this. Fill all porn subreddits with giant throbbing cocks because after all, it's hearts not parts?

snakeswithfur` · July 9, 2020, 9:18 a.m.

The Revolution of Giant Cocks. Wait for me to go blind and join you.

Kenny_Bannia · July 9, 2020, 9:51 a.m.

Lol Iโ€™d love to see the reactions from their fellow men if autogynophiles posted their dick pics in menโ€™s porny subs the way they do in r/dykesgonewild.

Ann_Fetamine` · July 9, 2020, 9:58 p.m.

It absolutely is. It's easy to support the trans movement & be woke when nothing is at stake for you. But when your dating apps, porn streams & spaces are getting invaded on this level it's a different story. They just don't know it yet.

BigStinkyNipples · July 9, 2020, 6:32 a.m. · 1 reply

You can tell a real lesbian didn't make this from the use of the word "boobies" smh

Tequila_Hoeseph ๐Ÿณ= woke bi · July 9, 2020, 8:23 a.m.

I use boobies tho ๐Ÿค”

Skaddox · July 9, 2020, 7 a.m.

The only transperson I know consumes a lot and I mean A LOT of fetish porn, like futa. I feel that has/had something to do with things.

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Tequila_Hoeseph ๐Ÿณ= woke bi · July 9, 2020, 8:27 a.m. · 2 replies

I don't know what is with trans and queers in general, I feel like half of them are into kinky or furry stuff

Tfw ur actually into femboys, tomboys, yaoi and other questionable content

I went to trans subs to get to know them better and gain more acceptance for trans people and simply understand them more.

Try /truscum. I don't agree with a lot of shit there but it's kilometers better than other trans places I've seen

bigmamascarpet` · July 9, 2020, 8:40 a.m. · 1 reply

Bruh I'm not into yaoi, femboys or tomboys (I'm a lesbian XD) or kinky stuff lol. But I think it's not accurate what you are trying to compare. Having looks preferences or watching certain anime genre is not the same as having sex kinks or etc. idk really. Besides, you didn't understand what I tried to tell. I referred to the situation in my home country, which as I can see you are unfamiliar with. Also, I'm not against trans people, as I said I do stan for them because I know how hard it is for us LGBT. It's not hate speech chill

Tequila_Hoeseph ๐Ÿณ= woke bi · July 9, 2020, 8:43 a.m. · 1 reply

Lol I was just trying to make a joke. But yaoi can 100% be a kink, and a really problematic one at that when it comes to FtM

bigmamascarpet` · July 9, 2020, 8:45 a.m. · 1 reply

Yes I have friends who are obsessed with yaoi, but they will grow up I hope, as I said sorry for the misunderstanding, English is not my first language ๐Ÿ˜…

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bigmamascarpet` · July 9, 2020, 8:42 a.m.

Sorry if I didn't understand something correctly, English is not my native language btw

Skaddox · July 9, 2020, 11:29 a.m.

I feel as though it's a very loud minority, like the loud and proud ones during parades. They aren't representing everyone, but it's all outsiders see, so LGB(T) is viewed as just the loud and proud people that thought police you and display their fetishes in public. I am all for living the way you want, so long as no one is being hurt (without consent I guess), but children especially do not need to see people wearing leather BDSM dog suits having almost-sex atop a parade float. Unfortunately, I feel the older conservative generations are not going to view us as anything other than the parade-goers, since that is the biggest display of ,,who we are'' you know?

spidertran345 · July 9, 2020, 4:47 p.m.

I think the problem is that the trans people who are also attention whores are going to stand out more because they're actively looking for attention. I hate it, it sucks that they end up representing trans people as a whole for some people. I want to believe that they're a tiny minority and that most trans people are just normal folks who want to be true to themselves and live happy lives, but with the internet it's hard to tell what's really going on. Anyone who stands up to certain bullshit from "the trans community" also seems to get silenced, including trans people who have what are apparently totally wild beliefs like "transitioning should be taken seriously because it could be regretted" or "you shouldn't try to convince people they're trans". I think most trans people are probably normal, but the online communities tend to feel like a really dangerous cult.

This is all coming from a trans person by the way. Also /r/actuallesbians is shit, I thought their acceptance of trans people might be a nice thing but when I check it out I feel like trans people have taken over it. I can't go there to view cis lesbian opinions because there's no way of knowing how many of the users are trans and that's bullshit. If I ask for opinions on whether or not it's really okay for a trans person to identify as a lesbian, I want honest cis opinions, not a bunch of trans people approving of their own behavior and shunning anyone who dissents. But what really made it clear to me that that sub sucks is that I tried to make a post there about how it's perfectly fine and not "transphobic" to not want to date trans people, only to have that post not go through because it was against the sub's rule about trans dating. Their official stance is that it's okay to guilt or pressure people into dating trans people, and that is absolutely disgusting to me. All of this only furthers the image of trans people as being predatory, trying to trick or coerce people into having sex with them and taking over spaces made for others.

tendeten · July 9, 2020, 7:31 a.m.

Remember, AGP isnโ€™t real, apparently

Dingolroot · July 9, 2020, 7:34 a.m.

Why, why, why are we letting children make life changing decisions???

Lettucebeantext · July 9, 2020, 8:44 a.m.

If a trans meme is missing a form of the word "valid," it will be found in the top comment.

Will-iRacing · July 9, 2020, 9:12 a.m.

So let me understand, trans girls are transitioned or transitioning men to women?

Do they think having a dick is irrelevant and they are still a lesbian?

Chunkeeguy Unapologetic Genital Fetishist · July 9, 2020, 9:38 a.m.
KendallMintcake · July 9, 2020, 9:42 a.m.

I feel so sorry for teenage lesbians, being gaslighted in this way by straight men in terrible wigs with a knicker fetish. No wonder so many of them imagine they'd be better off as "men".

GodmodeOFF` · July 9, 2020, 10:17 a.m. · 1 reply

AL is basically full of trans woman trying to relate to lesbians and the same recycled memes over and over again...

VegetableDisaster3 · July 9, 2020, 4:06 p.m.

How do you do, fellow lesbians? I too like boobies! (and does any lesbian actually say boobies? it's such a teenage boy word)

Salteen_` · July 9, 2020, 10:43 a.m.

Oh God

davids877straight male man · July 9, 2020, 11:41 a.m. · 1 reply
snakeswithfur` · July 9, 2020, 12:46 p.m.

I like you.

MuchoMarsupial · July 9, 2020, 1:18 p.m.

Glad there are teens

Wait what

paranoidandroid0430 · July 9, 2020, 2:09 p.m.

Iโ€™m sorry, but how can a lesbian like penis? If anyone sleeps with a trans person who transitioned, chances are they are bisexual, as many have characteristics of both male and female.

Sekmet_Eternal · July 9, 2020, 2:41 p.m.

Glad there are teens on the subbreddit? Predatory, much?

ary_s` · July 9, 2020, 3:46 p.m.

I wondered: why do trances take subreddit after subreddit? Why do they win all the attention and shut everyone up? And for me it became obvious: there are much more people with trans fetish (I don't talk about unfortunate people with dysmorphic disorder and schizophrenia) than actual gays and lesbians.

And about lesbians and their struggle with trans neckbeards. Being men, trans people have 10 times more testosterone (which makes people be active and aggressive) than women. This combines with complete moral impunity. Therefore, they squeeze poor lesbians from everywhere they reach and bully them.

CAB_Life · July 9, 2020, 4:12 p.m.

Iโ€™m going to make a sub called r/actualpenises and fill it with dildo art.

my-retarded-ass · July 9, 2020, 10:07 p.m. · 1 reply

You donโ€™t have to be born a girl/boy to be lesbian/gay.

StariUniverse` · July 9, 2020, 11 p.m. · 1 reply

Yea, you do. It's homoSEXuality not homoGENDERuality. Same sex attraction. You have to be female to be lesbian, and you have to be male to be gay.

my-retarded-ass · July 10, 2020, 6:29 a.m.

So your point is that you want people to love who they want to love and that counts for the whole world. Except trans people. Why canโ€™t us trans people just live in this universe without constantly being attacked by you people(you arenโ€™t even doing a good job either.)like, come on. You cis gays/lesbians had to fight for your right to exist globally, So why make ours harder.

worksite_garfield · July 9, 2020, 11:13 p.m.

iTโ€™s VaLiDaTiNg aS FuCk ๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ˜’

Lesbian_Frylock · July 10, 2020, 8:53 a.m.

Do people seriously still say "boobies"? I thought that was just a schoolyard thing.