Are you valid?

Submitted July 9, 2020, 1:15 p.m. by NeonBadgerMkI

Everytime I hear the word nowadays it seems to be used in a gender bending, social justifying context; it makes me laugh because the people using it instantly become cartoons, shouting slogans that no one understands or cares to.

So today I decided to explore the topic of validity.

Dictionary definition:

Validate:

1) To make valid; substantiate; confirm.

2) to give legal force to; legalize.

3) to give official sanction, confirmation, or approval to, as elected officials, election procedures, documents, etc.

So we know that the T isnt banned from thinking that they are T, they also are able to transition if they want to, so definition 2 is definitely out.

So number 3 is "give official sanction to", as most of us know, changing legal definitions is going to cause problems further down the line, but this is an area the T wants to change so they can have their imagined sex on their passport, etc.

So number 1 is their core issue, confirming they are valid. But what does this mean? Are we confirming they are people, or just confirming the lie they invented? Because from what I can see, validation completely relies on validating a lie. When you validate that absolute untruth, you also deny your own reality.

Why are we being pushed so hard to validate a non reality? When we validate a non reality, are we slowly being groomed to validate other things that arent true?

To me it seems like validation is giving authenticity to a thought pattern which is damaging. Nothing means anything, everything is vague and redefinable etc. It allows for a constant spiral into nothingness, and no debate is ever winnable because nothing has concrete definitions.

What do you think about validation? Does it make you laugh out loud? Do you cringe? Have any deeper thoughts on what this obsession with validation is?

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Shrekt-Effect · July 9, 2020, 2:10 p.m.

I think when they say valid they mean accepted and maybe even endorsed. It’s not enough for them to just be tolerated, even tho imo they shouldn’t, they need more, always more and more. They will just keep pushing until everyone is into this trans crap which is very harmful to many people. And it just shows their narcissism and how self centred they are that they constantly need validation from other people

SomeVelvetSundown · July 9, 2020, 2:11 p.m. · 1 reply

I’m so sick of the word “valid”. Along with “inclusive” “gender neutral” and “of color”.

I don’t take people seriously when they constantly use these terms. These type of people are, in my experience, usually young and/or very sheltered. Once they get out into the real world and face real problems they’ll either change or crack under the pressure of the cold hard reality.

justsara77 · July 9, 2020, 2:56 p.m.

The problem is that they have never lived in the real world where real problems exist. People who need constant validation are never happy and that happiness has to come within. If the entire world validated every one of them, they still wouldn’t be happy. It’s like feeding a huge black hole and you can give in 150% and they would still want more. It would become a new issue, or need for need verbiage when addressing them. I truly believe it’s unhappiness and not being happy with oneself that leads them to demand constant validation from everyone else.

Eurowoman24 · July 9, 2020, 2:19 p.m.

the word has become a joke they say it every two seconds.