My expectations for you were low but HOLY FUCK

Discussion Submitted July 10, 2020, 11:27 a.m. by Facade76

Upon hearing about this sub i’d already guessed it was some straight up bullshit. Turns out not only was i right, its worse. So much worse. So let me say something for yall

SEXUAL ORIENTATION IS NOT A CHOICE

ROMANTIC ATTRACTION IS NOT A CHOICE

GENDER IDENTITY IS NOT A CHOICE!

Like it or not the T is in the community because we’re pretty much cast out from everything else. Or just hated to the point we leave. If i could choose not to live like this, i would take that opportunity in the blink of an eye because it is some of the most painful experience ive had in my life. But again i cant choose that, my identity is not something i choose, its developed. This sub honestly just proves how unnecessarily hard it is for us to just exist

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muhgurldick · July 10, 2020, 11:29 a.m.

There is no such thing as "gender identity." There is no such thing as a "male" or "female" essence. You have an identity disorder. Which is awful, I'm sorry. I'm sure it's horrific. But it's selfish of you to think that we have to be a part of that.

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muhgurldick · July 10, 2020, 11:33 a.m.

I am very aware of the science behind gender dysphoria. If you would like to jump to my pm's, I will gladly debate you.

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LepidusII · July 10, 2020, 11:36 a.m.

Timezones my guy

LepidusII · July 10, 2020, 11:34 a.m. · 1 reply

Gender Dysphoria is a disorder. It is not normal or healthy. Im truly sorry for the individuals that do have it, especially those that are mislead by the internet that it's just a philosophy on Life.

Facade76 · July 10, 2020, 11:35 a.m.

It isnt a philosophy, it isnt a disorder. Cite your sources if you want to prove me wrong

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cutenoobies · July 10, 2020, 11:30 a.m. · 1 reply

Gender identity is definitely a choice except for those who have gender dysphoria. So pipe down about it.

Facade76 · July 10, 2020, 11:32 a.m. · 1 reply

Gender dysphoria is something that determines many trans people’s gender identity and again isnt a choice

Coooooool ive been muted because some people couldnt handle me existing

cutenoobies · July 10, 2020, 11:39 a.m.

Oh no... but now we have non-dysphoric people come out as trans or non-binary which definitely says that it is a choice. Rather than coming for us, why don't you go for them? It will help get a better dialogue.

LepidusII · July 10, 2020, 11:31 a.m. · 1 reply

When has this subreddit ever argued that sexual orientation is a choice? I'm honestly curious, considering this sub is full of Lesbians, Gays (such as myself), and Bisexuals who would vehemently argue against that notion.

Facade76 · July 10, 2020, 11:33 a.m.

I figured i’d start off with some things yall would actually agree on

darkdarksaturday · July 10, 2020, 11:32 a.m.

Sexual attraction and romantic attraction are not choices, you are correct! So why do so many trans activists insist that lesbians should 'suck on girl dick', that lesbians are transphobic for loving and being attracted to female people?

specforce87 · July 10, 2020, 11:33 a.m. · 1 reply

Ok, so stop saying our sexuality is transphobic

Facade76 · July 10, 2020, 11:33 a.m. · 2 replies

When did i once say that?

specforce87 · July 10, 2020, 11:35 a.m. · 1 reply

I never said you said that, however other members of the T have been known to say so. It's almost like it's one of the major reasons this sub exists

Facade76 · July 10, 2020, 11:36 a.m. · 1 reply

So this is a “few bad apples spoil the bunch” situation?

Tequila_Hoeseph 🍳= woke bi · July 10, 2020, 11:39 a.m. · 1 reply

No, it's a matter of " the LGBT and especially the T communities are a toxic cesspool but if you dare have criticism, you're a bigot"

Facade76 · July 10, 2020, 11:40 a.m.

What this sub is is definitely not criticism, its blatantly pushing a group of people out of a community that has accepted them for ages

Tequila_Hoeseph 🍳= woke bi · July 10, 2020, 11:36 a.m.

Well you might take a look at the pile of screenshots of such instances on subs like r/LGBdroptheT

Tequila_Hoeseph 🍳= woke bi · July 10, 2020, 11:34 a.m.

SEXUAL ORIENTATION IS NOT A CHOICE
Ya come on, continue bitching about it here instead of where people claim that sexuality is fluid. But ofc if you even mention how stupid "abrosexuality" is on any major LGBT sub, u banned

hugzboson · July 10, 2020, 11:37 a.m. · 1 reply

Sexual orientation and romantic attractions are not a choice and we have always said that. Tell this fact to Riley Dennis and other people who refer to sexual orientation as genital preferences and require people to analyze their "genital preferences" lest they get labelled a transphobic bigot.

Gender identity is not a choice when you have dysphoria. I have sympathy and understanding for people who suffer from dysphoria. Without it... ? Remember, you do not need dysphoria to be trans.

Facade76 · July 10, 2020, 11:38 a.m.

Yes. But even then gender identity isnt a choice. Its what you feel most comfortable living as