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censorshipmentBlack Lesbian · July 9, 2020, 6:58 a.m.
Absolutely misogyny... yet saying trans women are men is "hate speech".
owmygenderfeelsTeacher of Elementary Reproductive Facts · July 9, 2020, 7:13 a.m. · 1 reply
Such rage that he can't be female.
xx_power · July 9, 2020, 10:09 a.m. · 1 reply
He knows deep down that "only" gay men and bis will even consider him and it's eating him up inside
jupiter_sunstone · July 9, 2020, 10:34 a.m. · 1 reply
Why would gay men or bisexual people consider him? Gay men typically don’t want to be with someone who thinks they’re a woman, and bisexual people always get lumped in with that mindset of “trans people have both so it’s the best of both worlds for bi people” when most of us bis don’t want this sort of deranged and hateful person anywhere near us.
NitzMitzTrixTrans Enablement Refusing Feminist(TERF) · July 9, 2020, 3:26 p.m.
That's true for most bi women and many bi men, but there's enough pornsick bi men who developed a "shemale" fetish.
CosmicAnt29 · July 9, 2020, 7:52 a.m.
“But why are you cispeople so obsessed with genitalia??”
CharmedBat · July 9, 2020, 8:17 a.m. · 1 reply
This man is extremely upset that he isn't a woman. The jealously and mental illness is really showing.
crlody · July 9, 2020, 8:57 a.m. · 1 reply
Yeah if someone said that to me I wouldn't even be mad, I'd just feel sorry for them
lissomelight42 · July 9, 2020, 9:42 a.m.
I'd run in the opposite direction in order not to be murdered lol
OoFreeSouloO · July 9, 2020, 8:29 a.m. · 1 reply
The way he talks about pregnant women and their vaginas is something else. Utterly disgusting.
He sounds like a typical disgusting male lmao.
Tatey22 · July 9, 2020, 12:58 p.m. · 3 replies
I think he sounds jealous to be honest. Methinks the 'lady' doth protest too much
PunkiiDonutz · July 9, 2020, 1:51 p.m.
Yeah, he's clearly coping lol
octopushotdog · July 9, 2020, 5:40 p.m. · 1 reply
Was going to say the exact same thing. All those laughing emoji and shit... It's just a hate us cause you ain't us thing. At least my lasagnagina doesn't grow hair and isn't made out of literal ass
zaquiastorm · July 9, 2020, 7:39 p.m. · 1 reply
lasagnagina
😂🤣
octopushotdog · July 9, 2020, 7:59 p.m.
😋
MuchoMarsupial · July 10, 2020, 6:36 a.m.
Yup. He sounds like a dude pretending to be a woman, who knows it will always be pretense, never the real deal.
swallowflyingsolo · July 9, 2020, 8:34 a.m.
Sour grapes.
justsara77 · July 9, 2020, 8:50 a.m. · 1 reply
Women have had men trying to insert themselves into every aspect of their lives since the beginning of time. Now they want to include women and dick in the same breath, they want to insert themselves into our sports and sat it’s an equal playing field and somehow a penis is superior to a clit? Oh, hunny..... no it is not and you keep your one orgasm while I keep my multiple orgasms my clit provides.
These men are sick, homophobic and they hate women so much that I have to think they’re jealous of us🤷🏻♀️
zaquiastorm · July 9, 2020, 7:40 p.m.
They clearly don't understand that the vagina is a muscle that literally goes back to normal... like, what? Lasagna? In what universe? 🤦🏻♀️
ciaokhan · July 9, 2020, 8:55 a.m. · 4 replies
Transgender is beginning to sound like incel with extra steps.
ESSE_Leviathan · July 9, 2020, 9:44 a.m. · 1 reply
Instead of hating women, they switch sides lol
lucretiamott1 · July 9, 2020, 3:17 p.m.
*and still hate women
immortallogic · July 9, 2020, 11:52 a.m.
Lmaooo underrated comment
theressomanydogs · July 9, 2020, 1:49 p.m.
Oh my god, this is perfect! Right on point!
Frosted_Zaryanova · July 9, 2020, 10 p.m.
"if i cannot GET a gf, i will BECOME the gf!" <- literally them
lisfiss · July 9, 2020, 9:27 a.m.
Suck this dick? Assuming they’re on hormones... the flaccid, small, shrivelled, crepey dick? MMMMMMMM
lissomelight42 · July 9, 2020, 9:41 a.m. · 3 replies
1. his shriveled dick will never know the joy of multiple, clitoral orgasms and i hope he realizes it, by the goddess
2. women who have given birth are stronger than this pathetic man will ever be, and infinitely more beautiful. he also doesn't know much about post-partum vaginas and how they heal, like nature intended, but it doesn't matter a fig what they look like.
3. this man is seriously fetishistic and jealous and needs some mental help
4. he will never be a woman
thanks for your time
smiolet · July 9, 2020, 3:11 p.m.
Of course he's a man. it's men who don't know that vaginas heal, childbirth doesn't ruin anything.
I think this needs to bone emphasized because hospital practices that tear the perineum open and shove the baby's head back into the canal to punish the woman for being difficult are the key reason postpartum vaginas never recover.
voodooqueen126 · July 9, 2020, 7:26 p.m.
What? I know that obstetricians unnecesarily cut women-which leads to more tears (think of cutting fabric to tear the whole sheet) but I had no idea obstetricians put the babies head back in for extra sadism
MuchoMarsupial · July 10, 2020, 8:04 a.m.
Yup. As a childfree woman I can still say I would still much MUCH prefer to have a fully functioning actual vagina that's been through partum than a neo-vagina that's just a gross surgical hole.
EssentialLady · July 9, 2020, 10:10 a.m.
LMFAO. This is a new level of delusion!
TyrannosaurusTERF · July 9, 2020, 10:16 a.m. · 1 reply
When “I hate women” is too subtle
_alligator_lizard_ · July 9, 2020, 12:29 p.m.
Exactly.
Jaded_Mirror · July 9, 2020, 10:20 a.m.
This literally makes me physically ill.
winstonywoo · July 9, 2020, 10:25 a.m.
How exactly is this not considered offensive and yet saying biological sex is real is?
lanadelthrowawayyy · July 9, 2020, 10:30 a.m.
they want to be us so bad, and they hate us for it. pathetic lmao
informallory · July 9, 2020, 11:03 a.m.
Horrible, how can people be friends with someone like that?
LilianH` · July 9, 2020, 11:13 a.m. · 2 replies
"cramp free" oh dear, he just exposed the lie there didn't he.
kisairogue · July 9, 2020, 12:10 p.m.
What? I've been on HRT for three days and now I experience cramps and menstruate every 2 weeks. I need chocolate amirite fellow ladies
_alligator_lizard_ · July 9, 2020, 12:30 p.m. · 1 reply
They always want it both ways... they have periods, but they’re cramp free. They’re desperate for our uteruses, but having kids is a horrible burden. It’s almost like whatever part of womanhood they fetishize, that’s what they talk about...
MuchoMarsupial · July 10, 2020, 6:38 a.m.
If they were able to have children they would have done so and tried to trump mothers. They know they'll never be able to become pregnant so they pretend like it's not something they want.
dokyeomdoongie · July 9, 2020, 11:36 a.m.
jesus. more proof that it’s just a fetish and they pick and choose what parts of womanhood they want
emissch · July 9, 2020, 12:43 p.m.
The Incel is strong with this one.
Tangleofsnakes · July 9, 2020, 1:08 p.m.
Talkin' bout leftover lasagna like it's a bad thing
Lavender_flow · July 9, 2020, 2:10 p.m.
Wow, this guy sounds so insecure. Must suck to have this many issues. Because I mean clearly nothing states "I am so happy and carefree" as updating it all over facebook with 1000 emojis....... lol. Dude, perhaps he should go see a therapist because he has got some issues...
bad_fem · July 9, 2020, 2:36 p.m. · 1 reply
......Does he really think women can't find their own clits? 😂
owmygenderfeelsTeacher of Elementary Reproductive Facts · July 10, 2020, 12:09 a.m.
He severely misunderstood that "can't find the clitoris" stereotype and didn't realise it was referring to men (men who are pretending it's a big mystery to mask their total disinterest).
6BeanOfEnnui9 · July 9, 2020, 3:35 p.m.
Talk about r/badwomensanatomy
SugarPlumFairyDust · July 9, 2020, 3:45 p.m.
Seems like a pleasant person.
yourcatisakhajiitspy · July 9, 2020, 3:46 p.m.
I mean, if more men gobbled up his dick cheese instead of bothering women, I wouldn't complain. But for an alleged "woman", he sure as hell knows diddly squat about female genitalia.
eedle-deedle · July 9, 2020, 4:12 p.m.
Mental illness.
jumpingjellyf1sh · July 9, 2020, 5:36 p.m.
Of course the name he chose sounds like a stripper.
voodooqueen126 · July 9, 2020, 7:28 p.m.
Awfully similar to the incel rhetoric comparing non pubescent vulvas to roast beef. I know I keep on saying this, but large vulvas are an inherent good to women, which is why most women have them (including protruding labia).
justsara77 · July 9, 2020, 7:46 p.m.
In their universe anything is possible! You can be anything you want to be and you are VALID and you are LEGITIMATE!
I think I just threw up in my mouth🤮
Tyziken · July 10, 2020, 1:42 a.m.
hmm yes id love to know how this post has anything to do with the term TERF being a slur
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Absolutely misogyny... yet saying trans women are men is "hate speech".
Such rage that he can't be female.
He knows deep down that "only" gay men and bis will even consider him and it's eating him up inside
Why would gay men or bisexual people consider him? Gay men typically don’t want to be with someone who thinks they’re a woman, and bisexual people always get lumped in with that mindset of “trans people have both so it’s the best of both worlds for bi people” when most of us bis don’t want this sort of deranged and hateful person anywhere near us.
That's true for most bi women and many bi men, but there's enough pornsick bi men who developed a "shemale" fetish.
“But why are you cispeople so obsessed with genitalia??”
This man is extremely upset that he isn't a woman. The jealously and mental illness is really showing.
Yeah if someone said that to me I wouldn't even be mad, I'd just feel sorry for them
I'd run in the opposite direction in order not to be murdered lol
The way he talks about pregnant women and their vaginas is something else. Utterly disgusting.
He sounds like a typical disgusting male lmao.
I think he sounds jealous to be honest. Methinks the 'lady' doth protest too much
Yeah, he's clearly coping lol
Was going to say the exact same thing. All those laughing emoji and shit... It's just a hate us cause you ain't us thing. At least my lasagnagina doesn't grow hair and isn't made out of literal ass
😂🤣
😋
Yup. He sounds like a dude pretending to be a woman, who knows it will always be pretense, never the real deal.
Sour grapes.
Women have had men trying to insert themselves into every aspect of their lives since the beginning of time. Now they want to include women and dick in the same breath, they want to insert themselves into our sports and sat it’s an equal playing field and somehow a penis is superior to a clit? Oh, hunny..... no it is not and you keep your one orgasm while I keep my multiple orgasms my clit provides.
These men are sick, homophobic and they hate women so much that I have to think they’re jealous of us🤷🏻♀️
They clearly don't understand that the vagina is a muscle that literally goes back to normal... like, what? Lasagna? In what universe? 🤦🏻♀️
Transgender is beginning to sound like incel with extra steps.
Instead of hating women, they switch sides lol
*and still hate women
Lmaooo underrated comment
Oh my god, this is perfect! Right on point!
"if i cannot GET a gf, i will BECOME the gf!" <- literally them
Suck this dick? Assuming they’re on hormones... the flaccid, small, shrivelled, crepey dick? MMMMMMMM
1. his shriveled dick will never know the joy of multiple, clitoral orgasms and i hope he realizes it, by the goddess
2. women who have given birth are stronger than this pathetic man will ever be, and infinitely more beautiful. he also doesn't know much about post-partum vaginas and how they heal, like nature intended, but it doesn't matter a fig what they look like.
3. this man is seriously fetishistic and jealous and needs some mental help
4. he will never be a woman
thanks for your time
Of course he's a man. it's men who don't know that vaginas heal, childbirth doesn't ruin anything.
I think this needs to bone emphasized because hospital practices that tear the perineum open and shove the baby's head back into the canal to punish the woman for being difficult are the key reason postpartum vaginas never recover.
What? I know that obstetricians unnecesarily cut women-which leads to more tears (think of cutting fabric to tear the whole sheet) but I had no idea obstetricians put the babies head back in for extra sadism
Yup. As a childfree woman I can still say I would still much MUCH prefer to have a fully functioning actual vagina that's been through partum than a neo-vagina that's just a gross surgical hole.
LMFAO. This is a new level of delusion!
When “I hate women” is too subtle
Exactly.
This literally makes me physically ill.
How exactly is this not considered offensive and yet saying biological sex is real is?
they want to be us so bad, and they hate us for it. pathetic lmao
Horrible, how can people be friends with someone like that?
"cramp free" oh dear, he just exposed the lie there didn't he.
What? I've been on HRT for three days and now I experience cramps and menstruate every 2 weeks. I need chocolate amirite fellow ladies
They always want it both ways... they have periods, but they’re cramp free. They’re desperate for our uteruses, but having kids is a horrible burden. It’s almost like whatever part of womanhood they fetishize, that’s what they talk about...
If they were able to have children they would have done so and tried to trump mothers. They know they'll never be able to become pregnant so they pretend like it's not something they want.
jesus. more proof that it’s just a fetish and they pick and choose what parts of womanhood they want
The Incel is strong with this one.
Talkin' bout leftover lasagna like it's a bad thing
Wow, this guy sounds so insecure. Must suck to have this many issues. Because I mean clearly nothing states "I am so happy and carefree" as updating it all over facebook with 1000 emojis....... lol. Dude, perhaps he should go see a therapist because he has got some issues...
......Does he really think women can't find their own clits? 😂
He severely misunderstood that "can't find the clitoris" stereotype and didn't realise it was referring to men (men who are pretending it's a big mystery to mask their total disinterest).
Talk about r/badwomensanatomy
Seems like a pleasant person.
I mean, if more men gobbled up his dick cheese instead of bothering women, I wouldn't complain. But for an alleged "woman", he sure as hell knows diddly squat about female genitalia.
Mental illness.
Of course the name he chose sounds like a stripper.
Awfully similar to the incel rhetoric comparing non pubescent vulvas to roast beef. I know I keep on saying this, but large vulvas are an inherent good to women, which is why most women have them (including protruding labia).
In their universe anything is possible! You can be anything you want to be and you are VALID and you are LEGITIMATE!
I think I just threw up in my mouth🤮
hmm yes id love to know how this post has anything to do with the term TERF being a slur
That post is cringey and awkward af.