First date update

Submitted July 10, 2020, 8:24 a.m. by astroidcomet

Just an update with my my first ever date. Very awkward at first because we are complete strangers. We ate dinner. I’d made her laugh with my stories.

She introduced me to her friends (she knew basically everyone on the street). We went to an outdoor bar. Couple of drinks in me, I started talking to everyone and her. Though I spent a lot of time talking to her friends, which was fine. Sure, I would have brief moments alone with her, in between socializing with her friends. But I just really wanted to hold her hand or kiss her, maybe more time alone. And she realize we weren’t hanging out as much.

It’s weird because had fun but idk. My first date ever and I wasn’t sure what to expect. So I have no gage whether it was a good date or bad? I admit I’m slightly shy at first and it was slightly intimidating talking to her friends on our first date

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xvmeadar · July 10, 2020, 8:42 a.m.

Sounds like it went well! I think these things are easy to overthink, but try not to. Could you have spent more time with her? Maybe yes, maybe not. But you got along well with her friends by the sounds of it and that counts. I really think it was a good first date ever. Certainly better than some I have heard! Keep us posted, I want to know how it progresses.

moogisxx · July 10, 2020, 11:10 a.m.

Not to be a negative Nancy but it doesn’t really sound like a date if her friends were there. If I asked a girl on a date and her crew was there I’d just leave bc she isn’t showing that she wants to get to know me. Did you guys agree on it being a “date” or were you just hanging out? You will know when a date is a good date.