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Submitted by BrosMadd on Jan. 13, 2021, 5:10 p.m. 2 points | 1 comment

If so drop your fave subs or links

And let me know if you'd like a personalized clip of boyfriend ASMR just for you.

Trying to see something.

If it's another day ending in Y, I'm probably plotting on behalf of femcels

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Submitted by sheuvvie on Jan. 13, 2021, 1:15 p.m. 5 points | 14 comments

I live in America. The beauty standard here body-wise is thick. Skinny waist, big butt/breasts, etc. However, I don't really care about the thickness. In fact I hate the way it looks, I don't like curves tbh. I just want to be really thin. I've been looking at kpop idols for thinspo (which is unhealthy since most are underweight but I do it anyways). There's this one kpop idol named IU and I really wish I had her body shape and weight.

Does anyone else feel this way?

Submitted by vitamintops on Jan. 13, 2021, 11:52 a.m. 1 point | 6 comments

fuck everyone who treated me less than, who ignored me, who didn't listen to me, who laughed at me, who talked behind my back, who didn't take me seriously.

you are trash and you are everything that is wrong with this world.

you aren't pretty, your soul is ugly as your heart is. you have no character, you have no personality. you're a piece of shit

you're a sad excuse of a human being and you are the reason why so many commit suicide.

fuck you.

Submitted by blogging7890 on Jan. 13, 2021, 11:21 a.m. 1 point | 4 comments

So I was talking to someone on discord on video chat last night in my inside out shirt and my pajama bottoms because I couldn’t be fucked to actually get dressed, and I’m using this webcam that I was actually considering selling because it’s been sitting in my room collecting dust, I’d used it maybe 1 or 2 times before, I had to use it because I have a new laptop that for some reason doesn’t have a microphone??? Seems archaic but ok. So the cam counted as a mic, whatever. So I’m sitting there watching myself in HD and I’m drawn to the fact... that I’m so ugly. I’m looking at my limp, flat, lifeless hair that won’t cooperate with me no matter what, my face has no defined features (you know the fake, “you’re easy to draw” compliment? That’s me), I’m sitting there SO sad and I immediately realize I NEED to start wearing makeup, I need to get some tattoos to get some color on me or something. I couldn’t even finish the conversation with the guy who I’m still skeptical of why the hell he’s talking to me (it’s obviously because well side note and I don’t wanna delve into this too much because it’s off topic but I like asian dudes, I know I know make fun of me if you must I’m used of it. Doesn’t hurt any less, I get the side eye, the questions asking why, people passively aggressively treating me like I must not know what hot and sexy is all the time. Doesn’t hurt any less but I’m used of it but my point is he’s always telling me about how hard it is for asian guys to get laid and how he gets no attention so I know damn well if he had options I couldn’t see any reason why he’d actually talk to me cause of how I look) anyways I lingered on that point way too long, so back to what I was saying... I couldn’t even finish the conversation with the guy. I was so depressed already and just needed to get off the phone, I found some dumb excuse to hang up I don’t even remember what, I think I just hung up and said discord was tweeking, because, spoiler, discord usually actually IS tweeking so it would blend right in. But yeah I hate looking into mirrors or cameras because seeing how I look is SO depressing. And after last night holy shit the feeling is so raw, seeing myself in HD like that I’m like holy fuck I genuinely thought maybe I would feel a bit insecure about how I was DRESSED and that’s it, and we would continue to have mainly wholesome ass conversation like we have the last month or so. But nooo, my fucking FACE, my fucking hair, my glasses, it’s all sooooo bad. I’m definitely a low tier Becky lite or a low tier normie or however you say it (whichever one is less generous) so I feel bad venting about this stuff cause I’m like do I even have the right. But yes, yes the fuck I do and I can’t get my ugly face and hair out of my head now. I’m not a makeup wearer typically but after last night I now have the hugest urge I’ve ever had in my LIFE to go all out. I’m so shook and heartbroken and once I saw my face I couldn’t shut up about the makeup thing so that’s a big reason I had to hang up too cause I would have just made for boring conversation too. I actually did start rambling about my eyeliner that I lost and I’m sure he was so lost as to how this came up because it didn’t “come up” I just saw my face, and my heart sank and I couldn’t think of anything else I just had straight up tunnel vision about fixing my face from there. So I went to sleep so I wouldn’t have to hurt and I woke up about an hour ago and am still hurt about it

Submitted by kikii07 on Jan. 13, 2021, 8:56 a.m. 2 points | 41 comments

I'm probably going to get flack for this but I went in r/amiugly and I saw a post with a selfie picture of a very attractive girl claiming she has BDD. People with BDD never take photos for validation online. The photo has 2.1K likes as we speak and 10 awards. If it were an actual unattractive woman though. I was watching a BDD documentary and the participants avoided social media like a plague and rarely took pictures of themselves yet publish them. It makes BDD sufferers look like a joke.

Submitted by BrosMadd on Jan. 13, 2021, 5:48 a.m. 1 point | 17 comments

It was brought to my attention this was happening. Can you tell us why?

It's a short chat with one of a handful of mods. Plenty of people outside of the sub are trying to come but I'm especially looking forward to our regulars.

We chose voice because it is a way you can be confident no one is able to dox you (you don't need to send pics or video) but also know you're one of us and not some thirsty, larping moid.

I just ask because if I overlooked something I want to know. I do care how you feel. The upside is privacy and you can say whatever you want.

For all the girls who have come in, thanks for joining. Come hang!

Some of you are so shy but sweet. Some of you are fun and opinionated. The memes, the comments, its a good time ❤

Submitted by Appropriate_Fudge367 on Jan. 13, 2021, 2:09 a.m. 1 point | 9 comments

has anyone else’s body leveled off kinda? like ur body just found a size where it’s comfortable being that’s neither skinny or obese? this time last year i weighed about 230lbs and after a year of crazy weight fluctuations i’m a size 12. learning to dress my body has been interesting but learning how others see me has been even more interesting. having people tell me i’m not fat is so weird because i still feel like my ghost fat hasn’t left me, but i can wear things i couldn’t before so i don’t feel like the whale i was. i definitely still have work to do before i’m truly happy with myself.

to my my femcel sisters of all sizes what do you think about midsize bodies? do you think of them as plus size, regular, etc?? to the girls with midsize bodies how have your experiences been if you transitioned from skinny to midsize or obese to midsize?

for size reference

Submitted by LegitimateBath4 on Jan. 13, 2021, 1:38 a.m. 1 point | 3 comments

Anyone else make friends online, and know they just assume you're better looking than you are?

I've had long-term friendships online, they've sent me pics of themselves and I've never sent them back. They assume I'm insecure; I'm not - I'm actually quite comfortable with how I look - I'm just aware that I'm treated way better when I don't share my face. The friendships begin more easily, and they don't end.

Sometimes I feel guilt about this, but being in contact with people without them knowing what I look like has given me so much freedom, the opportunity for friendships (albeit nontraditional), and has been really good for my overall mental health.

Should I be trusting them more? Is it unfair to continue being friends when experience tells me that sharing what I look like will slowly kill the friendship? I know in theory it shouldn't matter what you look like, but in reality...

Submitted by passtheskittles on Jan. 12, 2021, 10:49 p.m. 1 point | 9 comments

so that’s how life is going

Submitted by 505ithy on Jan. 12, 2021, 9:44 p.m. 1 point | 23 comments
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Submitted by Past_Ad1737 on Jan. 12, 2021, 8:18 p.m. 2 points | 2 comments
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Submitted by QueasyHead5716 on Jan. 12, 2021, 6:50 p.m. 2 points | 3 comments

I was rejected not too long ago by a guy who was leading me on for a year or so. The reason: my personality and mental health. He himself has anxiety and stress issues, gets mad at everything, walks away whenever there is an argument (literally).

He told me he wants to date a strong willed woman, who's independent. He's 34 years old and lives with his dad. I am 23 years old, came to the United States from another country to pursue a PhD, and I am financially independent. Still, not good enough for him.

One of the reasons he cited when he rejected me was the fact that I suffer from severe panic attacks, and he does not want to deal with it. He said he deserves "healthy love". He said he wants someone who is more confident, at the same time when he himself is putting me down. I always thought I am quite a confident person, but he has slowly changed my mind about it. I just feel like I never was the person I thought I was.

Have you ever been rejected due to mental health issues or similar stuff? I feel like I am all alone in this.

Submitted by Dahliacid on Jan. 12, 2021, 2:52 p.m. 1 point | 1 comment

Told a friend they were hurting me with what they doing. They kept saying they don’t understand. Their other friend’s (Becky) gf overheard when I was angry to the point n yelled. when she said something all of a sudden they understood what she meant and now acting like a friend towards me. Bc of this I no longer wanna be friends with the person if all it took was for her to say something one time.

Submitted by roozie97 on Jan. 12, 2021, 2:44 p.m. 1 point | 20 comments

I know its simple , eat less and move more. But I'm struggling to eat less. I've gone through every diet, after those diets I tend to binge eat and regain everything :(. I can't stop eating. I've struggled with my weight my whole life. Im still currently 10 pounds overweight for my height. My weight is the main issue that is making me unattractive yet I can't stop stuffing my face at the same time. I also tend to use food as a coping mechanism when I'm bored or angry. Im stuck in the same binge/restrictive diet cycle. If only I was able to overcome this and control my eating, it would definitely improve everything as weight loss is the most important component in softmaxxing. Once again, I regained everything I lost during a diet i was doing for 8 months :(. I've resorted to eating just one meal a day , the only thing that has controlled my hunger. If I were to even have only 2 meals now, I would be like fuck it and binge eat the whole day.

Submitted by totehure on Jan. 12, 2021, 2:22 p.m. 1 point | 15 comments

personally i am a depressed autist so i have no social skills and alot of social anxiety

like i cant act like a human to save my life(never had irl friends in my life) and have a panic attack whenever something goes socially wrong . Also being depressed and not having the energy to socialize and when you do you are boring because depression

also im ugly on top

Submitted by totehure on Jan. 12, 2021, 1:57 p.m. 1 point | 14 comments

its like every time before i see it i live in blissful ignorance

Submitted by sangwoosprincess on Jan. 12, 2021, 1:39 p.m. 2 points | 3 comments

i dont really have better words for it. im just so done with life, im done with myself, im done with giving myself false hope

i just wish it were easier, i dont wanna hurt anyone because i know people care about me. but every day just gets harder to finish and i cant take it anymore. idk what to do. i wish i was just beautiful :/

Submitted by koko_p on Jan. 12, 2021, 9:42 a.m. 1 point | 9 comments

this tiktok: https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMJvEJCAP/ and especially the comments underneath are perfect examples of what is being spread about who femcels are. they think that misandrist = femcel which which i don’t believe is true. you can be both but just because you are one doesn’t automatically make you the other.

also, don’t even get me started on the lookism. the ugliness of femcels has been entirely taken out of the equation which is like....the most important part lol. i don’t see a ton of ‘femcel’ content on tiktok but when i do, it’s stuff like this: a quirky pretty or normal looking girl using the term wrong

Submitted by QueasyHead5716 on Jan. 12, 2021, 6:48 a.m. 1 point | 2 comments

I don't know where else to write about this, so I will just write here.

A lot of guys have rejected me because of various reasons (looks, personality, mental health issues etc), but one of the things that hurt the most is my prior involvement in adult entertainment that happened when I was 18-19 years old due to being persuaded and pressured into it. When men find out about it, they want to have sex with me because of this, but they "never would date me" as they say.

It hurts every time so badly. Even more than being rejected for appearance etc, because it's a part of my life I am really not proud of. I have been physically assaulted by a man who I didn't tell "soon enough" about my past. He was ashamed and said I mislead him by not spilling the beans on the first date. Male friends tell me I should have the right to do what I have done, but that "they could never date a woman like that".

Do men ever reject you because of something you have done in the past that doesn't even necessarily reflect you as the person you are today? Let me know.

Submitted by greenteaapplepie69 on Jan. 12, 2021, 4:43 a.m. 1 point | 44 comments
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Submitted by uglygalthrow on Jan. 12, 2021, 4:13 a.m. 1 point | 10 comments
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Submitted by kay1003 on Jan. 12, 2021, 1:19 a.m. 1 point | 10 comments

I'm very concerned that I may be frauding online with selfies that I've taken. I have many good photos, but photos taken on a whim by others look very different. Many femcels speak of frauding; is there any way to tell if you're just choosing your ideal angles or if it has escalated to 'frauding'? I do attempt to reduce lens and distance distortion (take photos with the back camera from a mirror from some distance away) and all the photos I've taken myself and enjoyed are taken this way, yet I am very unsure.

Submitted by lapisazu1 on Jan. 12, 2021, 12:35 a.m. 1 point | 26 comments

I don't even know why it had taken me this long to come to this conclusion. There really is nothing that's more textbook suifuel than kpop girlgroups, it's a bunch of fit, usually tall, feminine, and talented women with perfect skin, loved by thousands of people all over the world. They quite literally make money off of being beautiful. Theres even a designated "visual" in these groups and as a kpop stan I'm now realizing that my life has been taken over by groups of singing and dancing stacys. I hate it here.

Submitted by sp4cel0ver on Jan. 12, 2021, 12:30 a.m. 1 point | 5 comments

Lol just started this zoom lecture and the prof is a white guy which isnt the point but anyway usually nobody turns on their cam for lectures but i suppose since the class size for this module is pretty small at 22 ppl he requested all of us to do so. At the time i was in the toilet peeing lmfao and i panicked. Also i didnt wanna show my background so i was searching for the change background function but i always get locked out for some reason so i needed more time but then he said “come on, just 2 more people... (my name) you can do it” WDYM. Ofc i can. Its just a switch of a button. Lol wtv guess im overreacting but that made me feel so embarrassed. Anyway i eventually turned my cam on and i just looked like a sausage thumb. Meanwhile there were a few beckies LOLOLOLOLOL. Doesnt help that ive gained a lot of weight and am trying to straighten my back so i have a noticeable double chin and it just fucking sucks fml

Idk what the point of this post is just needed to vent for whats gonna come for the next few months of me looking like a stale sausage thumb to my classmates :)

Submitted by ateezii on Jan. 12, 2021, 12:27 a.m. 1 point | 2 comments
Submitted by uglygalthrow on Jan. 11, 2021, 11:51 p.m. 1 point | 25 comments
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Submitted by Kitkatismylove on Jan. 11, 2021, 10:27 p.m. 1 point | 1 comment

So, shitpost right here.

I've completly sold my soul to sea shanty tiktok. It's great, it's the amalgamation of years of longing and desire to be a PIRATE. I WANNA BE A PIRATE or something.

Like LOOK-

https://youtu.be/gpsAIEO-IWg

Submitted by cathycassidy on Jan. 11, 2021, 9:12 p.m. 1 point | 10 comments
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Submitted by ihatebeingfemcel on Jan. 11, 2021, 8:29 p.m. 1 point | 19 comments

What kind of work do you do to make sure you have enough money to take care of yourself and live comfortably?

Submitted by snuffst4r on Jan. 11, 2021, 8:22 p.m. 1 point | 5 comments

like everyday i think and just KNOW how much happier and successful i would be if i was actually good looking. if i was a pretty girl id legit LOVE to get out of bed everyday, go to work, go outside for walks, explore my city, make plans, etc..

thats what fucking KILLS me everyday the most. Instead im this repulsive weirdly shaped inactive potato who legit sleeps or lays in bed till 6 pm, its SO hard for me to get up. i cant do it. what is there to be awake for? waking up and showing up to a sad inferior pathetic life of being in my small room all day.

im trying so hard to get it together and lose my excess belly/back/waist fat so i can go get a job and move out into a better environment but its so hard. i lose hope everytime when i remember how ugly i am, i just give up because whats the point. ill never be that accomplished healthy pretty girl with the clean slick hair, nice blouse & skirt & heels at her job, i hate it. i wanna dress up nice do my hair wear skirts and heels and cute outfits and go out into the world everyday ad have fun.

i dont see the point in any of it as an ugly girl but i know 1000% i would if i was pretty. ugh. i had ONE fucking job just one!!!!! nothing else matters to me if im missing the pretty face.

Submitted by dumbdumbbabydoll on Jan. 11, 2021, 7:57 p.m. 1 point | 1 comment

Hey, i don't want to having my morality judged, so I hope it kinda doesnt happens here but I've been entertaining the idea of catfishing/scamming old moids. Like not for big sums of money, just 10/20/30$. I'm going thru a rough time and need the money, and i think I could pull it off maybe? Like, they aint the brightest (they ARE old ugly men thinking they have some kind of chance with a hot young girl after all) and my voice is cute so I have that to my favour. I guess I just wanted to vent that? or ask for advice? I know this aint the sub for it but, it's kinda of a nice little pitty revenge towards superficial delusional men in some way so.

Submitted by fille_hideuse on Jan. 11, 2021, 7:05 p.m. 1 point | 5 comments

Been texting this guy since NYE. We cannot meet currently because of covid.

He scheduled a date in 2 weeks. He is kind, texts back quickly.

Now that I suggested I find him physically attractive, he replied "me, I like you for your personality".

I am not going to "date" him in two weeks. You're supposed to date someone you are physically attracted to.

I actually thought that someone would find a woman in me, but instead I'm just some pen pal but with vagina.

I'm not texting him back ever again.

Submitted by Past_Ad1737 on Jan. 11, 2021, 5:11 p.m. 1 point | 19 comments
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I've written about this more than once.

This is the not the first web community I've been part of. The one I spent 10 years with is dominated by bullies and people that I had great affection for....don't return it

They're assholes. Actually, it's a perfect mirror of real life. I've met a lot of these people, know their real names, seen their faces (and God help me, they've seen mine, long ago). It became an informal meetup group, really. This was the last resource I had to make friends.

And now...I hate these people. They hate me back. It's so pathetic; most of them are middle aged.

I'll just say it - I wish I had people who I had history with who validated my anger. I had one such penpal, and she disappeared. And I know there's only so much of that other people can take.

But I look at "alumni" from this please who made real friends after meeting people in person, text people, and have people find them interesting.

I've wanted that my whole life.

That's really the worst part of this all - of being a femcel, of being a consummate failure (in health, professionally, socially, in terms of taste) - I just don't matter, and I'm consumed by indignation, humiliation, loneliness, and boredom all day. And eventually those idle thoughts go to paranoid intrusive thoughts.

I have no control over a deeply disturbing world outside my nightmares and fears, nor the daily, nauseating, sweaty presence of the latter.

Nobody in my life that isn't related to me cares if I care about them. Nobody in my life really cares if I see things the way they do. I made no friends in college. I have no close friends from high school.

I wish my emotional and personal historical landscape weren't that of an angry frightened loser, because if I did have friends, I'd exhaust them. I have one family member who suffers as much as I do, and has suffered more. (They were assaulted and severely physically hurt.) I exhaust them, they exhaust me.

It'd be like having a friend in class who calls out the same bullies that make you life or your "scene" shitty. It's so pathetic! But it's true. It's just amazing how much better I'd feel if someone validated my anger or saw what I saw about he things that disturb me.

In terms of this forum, the people I cared about very much either turned on me, revealed themselves as most people who know me from real life do, or just...don't give a shit. Like, they moved on. They have real life friends. I've talked about a male acquaintance who has 200 and continuously makes them.

This is the 20th year I've wished people happy birthday who could not give a fuck less, maybe even written something personal - there is nobody in my life who isn't related to me who knows my birthday.

I'm young. I'm only in my 30s.

But professionally, in terms of failure, and considering that even before COVID, I was isolated and it only seems to get worse each year...I feel very, very old.

I guess I should be grateful I'm not in college these days. It looks fucking awful.

This is so embarrassing and so pathetic but God damn, it is tormenting me. I wish someone were angry for me! I wish someone cared about me and were there to receive my anger - about my petty fucking life and the things that have disappointed me or make me feel small, maybe even about things I'm afraid of.

Submitted by lovingmoonchild on Jan. 11, 2021, 4:39 p.m. 2 points | 21 comments

I am extremely academically and career driven, and I don't mean to brag, but I am very smart and accomplished. Every time I get passed over in favor of a prettier, more fuckable girl, I get so sad. The only qualification I ever lack is a pretty face. I hate seeing hot girls waltz in and win first place in competitions without even doing anything. It depresses me so, so much to know that this will continue for the rest of my life, that I will be the hard-working, intelligent, educated, and experienced one, and still not be able to get the job I want, ALL because of my face, and meanwhile, Stacy doesn't have to lift a finger. It makes me want to rope. Even if I do climb the career ladder, I'll be subject to snickers about how I don't have a husband, how I'm probably a virgin, the way my face looks like a witch or an ogre. And all those things will be true. Knowing I can't have a career makes me feel like I got shot. Being an ugly woman is a death sentence.

Submitted by the_lovewitch on Jan. 11, 2021, 4:22 p.m. 1 point | 9 comments

Some days i’m just okay with my appearance, but I’m usually depressed about it. Some days I’m absolutely destroyed by it and have no motivation to get out of bed. I’ve gone days without eating before because I just can’t bring myself to get up. Today is one of those days

Submitted by Chupachoop65 on Jan. 11, 2021, 1:03 p.m. 3 points | 41 comments

One I know is lizzo. I know this may seem brutal, but most people don't find her attractive. Personally for me, I still think she has a cute face. I've never seen her talking about her being in a relationship. I know, she may decide to keep this private and I respect her for that. But still, as a celebrity, there may be atleast one photo taken by the paparazzi secretly with her partner leaked. I also don't see men lusting over her like they do with other female celebrities. Im sorry I know this a weird post. Im just curious to see if you guys can think of any other femcel celebrities that may not be considered as particularly attractive, that I may relate with them more.

Submitted by uglygalthrow on Jan. 11, 2021, 11:53 a.m. 2 points | 42 comments

I don’t wish it happened to me. I just feel weird when women say every single woman gets street harassed by men constantly. I have a few times when I was younger, but it was by young dudes (like 12) and I didn’t really feel threatened by it. I’ve also had young boys (less than 8) stare at my butt and try to slap it but I was just disturbed not scared for my life.

Also other stuff, like men and women can’t be friends, the guy will always want more. I feel like this only happens to pretty women. If the man is more attractive, then the woman will want more. I have seen this happen to Stacies too. Most of the guys Stacies call their friends are clearly in love with them though. Idk why they don’t just call them their orbiters.

Guys changing who they are when you enter their group. They just ignore me for the most part or treat me like I’m a man/smelly asexual blob.

I also don’t get how some girls talk about losing male friendships. The guy was their best friend or longterm friend of several years but cut them off with no remorse once the girl won’t date them.

Submitted by crying-atmydesk on Jan. 11, 2021, 9:41 a.m. 1 point | 14 comments

They promote love in movies, TV shows, even in commercials, everything is full of love stories, happy couples and they don´t care about us, people who can´t get love in our lives :/ or they portray us as a joke.

anyone feeling the same?

Submitted by user-number123 on Jan. 11, 2021, midnight 1 point | 6 comments

It was about a girl who was really ugly and insecure and she worked at a company where everyone mistreated her and then one day she downloads an app that helps her change her appearance but there was like a catch to it bcs she had todo whatever missions the app said, idk if that makes sense. Anyway it was a chinese manhua and I had read it on manga rock but I can’t find it since it got taken down, pls help😔

Submitted by med_z on Jan. 10, 2021, 8:28 p.m. 4 points | 22 comments
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Submitted by yellowchair99 on Jan. 10, 2021, 5:34 p.m. 3 points | 4 comments

my brothers get so much attention from girls and they’re both very vain and think they’re better than other people. They’re literally friends with the guys who’d bully me about my appearance and all the girls who have crushes on them have pretended to be my friend at some point to get close to them. It’s so horrible always being the reject sibling. No one wants to get to know you, none of ur classmates have a crush on u they all have a crush on ur siblings. I’m so tired. my brothers have never been bullied in their life so they’re really rude to me when i talk about my experiences and gaslight me saying those experiences probably didn’t happen. How are you gonna tell me i’m lying about my own trauma 😭 I was saying how hard it was for me growing up and having ppl pretend to want to hang out with me at my house just to ignore me the whole time to try and talk to my brothers and they were so unsympathetic saying how it wasn’t even rude of the friends to do that? Like if the situations were reversed and their friends would pretend to like them just so they could see me they’d find it annoying?

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Submitted by BrosMadd on Jan. 10, 2021, 12:19 p.m. 2 points | 27 comments

It's pretty simple. The only thing that has been consistent with Reddit's application of site rules is if the subreddit is female based, it is held to higher scrutiny, much quicker, for a ban with no recourse. If the subreddit is male, negative press is required to push them into quarantine before a ban, if they ever get a ban. Female subs don't get any sort of warning and a pretty short shelf life.

It isn't fair but this is just more of the same of life for women.

One thing we mods do is keep an eye out for potentially TOS breaking comments. It isn't ever done to silence you or your frustrations but rather, to protect the existence of this sub.

While accusations are often lobbed at Trufemcels, we know the accusations are outright lies because we proactively monitor and remove content that will get us banned. It may not stop hating ass moids from trying to plant things, but we do what we can.

In order to protect the sub, I am asking each and every one of you to report suspicious content or content that definitely breaks TOS. Fact of the matter is there are certain conversations we do not and have not hosted here for well over a year specifically for this reason.

If you write content that can get your personal accounts suspended, please know it also puts the subreddit at risk especially if one of us don't see it in time. This doesn't mean you can't speak your aches and pains and hopes. It means protecting the community requires us to look out for each other.

Now that being said, we now have an official Trufemcels Discord.

https://discord.gg/xmW23MSCdG

It would be great if our regulars join. It will be another way for us to engage and away from all the ridiculous policing.

For the most part, the server is robust and has channels for discussing everything we can and cannot openly discuss on Reddit. It will also be one of the places you can go to for information in the event something occurs to or within our community.

There is also an available voice chat for lonely femcels who just want to hang with likeminded women or want to engage in watch parties!

The server has two general spaces open to all called MISC and AskTruFemcels. These spaces are co-ed and modded like ATF in order to protect femcels and user experience. It is all anyone can see when they find our server.

The entire rest of the server is for women only and full access will be granted upon a short voice verification process. Until then feel free to hang out in these two general rooms.

This sub is now public again. As always, we love to hear from you about improving our experience here so your thoughts are more than welcome. Thank you for continuing to make this the best sub on Reddit.

👑

Gx.

Tl;dr Moids continue to target this sub in an effort to take all female subs down so we are taking measures to continue protecting it. For Trufemcels unfiltered, check out the new Trufemcels discord server and get verified for a women's only space.

Submitted by isellgrapes on Jan. 8, 2021, 3:27 p.m. 1 point | 7 comments

Being unattractive and having a high sex drive makes me go crazy. I wish I were one of those girls who are confident enough to just have a ONS. Honestly, there would be so many things I would worry about - my body, my face, my voice. I‘m just not the kind of girl people would enjoy sex with.

I want someone to be attracted to me, to not wish for someone else but be happy that it is me right now. Someone who makes me feel desired and special. And not just an object.

But really, as an unattractive girl I better wish for a Ferrari

Submitted by i_am_nimue on Jan. 8, 2021, 2:46 p.m. 2 points | 3 comments

It's not even that I feel like less of a woman, no, I hardly feel like a person. Like, how can I be a normal human being when not only I am so ugly, but also I'm unable to form any longlasting relationship with friends and family (not even gonna mention relationship with a man, coz, yeah, you know how that's been going). No one keeps in touch with me. Once I stop talking/texting people, they never check on me, never ask how I am, etc.

Not having anyone, not having started my own family, really makes me feel like I'm not fully a person. I'm something less. I'm worth as much as dirt under my nails.

Does anyone else feel like this ever?

And, if not, if you're somehow able to maintain some sense of self worth, please share your secrets - how??