my eyes are small and i have to have thin ones or i literally look like a man

i am 26 years old and DONT Want to live into old age, i already feel old. Especially my lack of intimacy. I would hate to be OLD and UGLY. At least i have my youth, i am going to get uglier as i age!! i think ugly people age even uglier, wrinkles, the chin and jaw gets more recessed!!! I seen beautiful old people, aka my mom. !!

I also would hate to be old and lonely, seeing young pretty girls ans their boyfriends and me as an old ugly hag tearing up because i never got to live a fulfilling life like that! When you are old, you actually going to need people to take care of you!!! ugh, i hope i die at before 40. i dont want to be an ugly wrinkly lonely raisin :(

Meanwhile TRP is 'quarantined'. Fuck misogyny.

I’m so tired of men. I’m glad i’m bi but honestly I could never stand the strain of a relationship with the amount of mental baggage I have. A “friendly” marriage with a woman who I don’t have to worry about impressing with my looks sounds like heaven orz

The title says it all.

Not to sound like InkwellTears 😭 but on TikTok they have so many fine dudes on there I love seeing one pop up on my page. I don’t follow them or stalk them — just fantasize about them in my Naomi fantasy.

I realized that genetics are everything in life. The way we look is obviously hugely influenced by genetics, and if you lost in the looks department as a female, you lost in life. Even if I have kids somehow, if they are females they will also suffer the horrible treatment and forced isolation that I went through. Even if I were to somehow ascends, the blackpill and pinkpill never disappear. They will haunt future generations to come, and there is no escape for my possible descendants.

Not only in having kids that will suffer, but any future spouses are much more likely to cheat, especially if some Stacey decides to give them any attention. They only settled for me in the first place because they couldn't be with a Stacey or even Becky. No matter how much I do for anyone it will never be enough to compete with what Stacey has naturally.

There is no escape for me, it is absolutely over.

I am extroverted. Always have, always will be. I just love to give people advice (when warranted of course!) because it pains me to see people in predicaments. I’ve been alone and had no one to turn to, so I want to help people escape this feeling. I’ve been described as being a “social butterfly” because I’m quite an eccentric and outgoing person. However, being ugly, this is a deadly combo. Instead of being the cute friendly girl everyone loves, I am the weird girl who thinks people would want to even talk to her. It’s just had such a toll on my mental health to constantly be rejected by everyone in life. I really try to stay in my own lane while being friendly, I don’t bother anyone yet I receive such odd treatment just because of my face. It’s like I’m not even human, so it’s somehow okay to treat me terribly. All I ever get is laughed at. Don’t even get me started on what boys have said to me... somehow I am both ignored/invisible and the laughing stock of every joke. It’s like “Why is she so bubbly? If I had a face like that I’d kms” or “Why does she walk around as if she isn’t disgusting” I can’t live like this anymore. My existence is simply too painful

I’m not saying that everyone on the sub does this, but I feel as though we as a sub can sometimes glorify relationships with women as if women do not have the same feelings of disgusts towards femcels that men do. As someone who experiences attraction towards men and women, I can tell you guys that women will not treat you better than a man when you are a femcel. You will still be laughed at if you try to approach them romantically or platonically. I’m sure that a majority of us are aware of this, I’m just putting out a reminder. The whole “sadly I’m attracted to men” thing can be a little tone deaf especially when coming from a country where homosexuality is illegal... obviously liking men when you’re a femcel is pain in general but it’s not any better for a situation for sapphic femcels either, so it’s better to not glorify wlw as if a majority of wlw do not think highly of femcels like most other groups.

Edit: The title is sort of misworded, I mean to say that we shouldn’t glorify wlw as if women treat femcels any better. We as a sub are all too aware on how women can be lookists. I apologize for the lack of proper communication and wording in my title

I threw all my looksmaxing down the drain during quarantine. I had an extremely bad depressive episode where I barely left my bed. Usually my responsibilities don't give me time to dwell on my sadness for mass amounts of time but I had plenty because of quarantine and like a dumbass, I let myself get consumed by it again. I stopped working out and began eating more which caused me to gain all the weight I lost back and even more, I stopped taking care of my skin and would only wash my face in the shower (fatal for my acne prone skin), and I stopped taking care of my hair (I would only wash it and not use any conditioner/moisturizer. I didn't even bother detangling it and if you have type four hair like me, I'm sure you know how fatal that combination is). Now that I've somewhat snapped out of it I've realized the damage that I've done. I'm so pissed at myself for letting myself be consumed again. All my hard work down the drain just like that. I downloaded my fitness pal again, put my step tracker back on, started trying to detangle my hair (I've already broke a comb so far and my hair keeps breaking off), and I started taking care of my skin again (moisturizer, tretinoin, nicinamide, salicylic acid, and benzoyl peroxide). I'm just so mad at myself for undoing everything. It took me a long time to lose the weight I did, get my skin somewhat clear, and to get my hair healthy. Even with those things I was still ugly but I was better than now. I feel so much shame letting myself sink back into depression that renders me completely useless. I always try to fight it from happening but it got me this time and now I'm left to pick up the bits and pieces again from what I've done.

She was my favourite user here and I really liked her posts and her insights, she's based. All of a sudden her account got deleted, so does anyone know why?

On too many occasions If i look in a guys direction for a second too long they’ll always say things like ‘why is that ugly girl looking at me’ ‘why is the girl with the big nose and massive forehead facing me’ like directly so i can hear when i’m not even properly looking at them. Like obviously i’ll be glancing around the room when there’s a new class and a new seating plan but i genuinely can’t even move my head incase

a guy thinks i’m looking at him cuz then he’ll roast me.

It’s horrible to see the difference when a pretty girl looks at them like they’ll smile and look really shy but when i do it they just scowl at me or insult me or make gagging noises. Why are men so offended by ugly women? Yeah some guys can be cruel to ugly men but they’re way more disrespectful to ugly women. I just want to be normal.

Its the worst thing ever. Suifuel all around. Outside i wanna kms, at home i cant even catch a break.

Today my younger sis got a haircut. She just went in and said she wanted bangs. Now most people will probably deliberate for a while and think of possible fringe haircuts and stuff, and bangs is kind of a hit and miss. I asked her why the sudden change and she said “i just wanted to try it out”. As expected, of course, she looked stunning as ever. Just a casual cut? Still beautiful as ever. Btw— she also has pretty bad acne. But no. It cant even cover or diminish her beauty a single bit (sure she’ll probably be some lush goddess with clear skin but trust me when i say she still turns heads). Also, shes kind of fat. Again, perfect fat distribution, genetically superior— shes pear shaped. Carries it very well, still retains a slim face and long neck. Gorgeous in every way.

She also got some new earrings on the way. She was trying them on, and my lookist mum came out and she broke into this, idek, she just screamed “WOW YOU LOOK SO PRETTY!!!!!!! ALL YOUR BOY CLASSMATES WILL LOVE YOU!!!!!!” Meanwhile, me, trying hard not to cry, at the side, invisible and ugly. I was brought into this world to be nothing more than a contrast to her beauty. Shes a bright shining diamond and im a dull, dirty rock.

Just the other day we had a family gathering to celebrate my grandma’s birthday. My disgusting kind of pervy uncle was there. We only see him once a year on special occasions like chinese new year and my grandma’s birthday. When we came he couldnt take my eyes off my younger sis. It was so disgusting honestly but like i said she turns heads and stuns them all.

Honestly if she lost weight and her acne clears up, she’ll be the biggest gigastacy. I dont know or why fate could be so cruel to me. I had to have a GIGAstacy for a sister. Shes been turning heads and attracting attention since she was goddamn 8y lol (men are inherently pedos we all know that). She looks a lot like chinese actress liu yi fei (mulan anybody?). have to admit even i am mesmerized by her beauty. When she smiles or laughs its like. She can rival top kpop stars. How can it be that right beside me theres a girl worthy of being the top beauties of the WORLD. Im honestly not exaggerating. I wish i were. Wherever she goes shes PRAISED by relatives and STARED at by passerbys. I truly dont exist next to her. I cant. God forbid even if i somehow get a lover. He will be immediately attracted to her and forget about me. Im really doomed to femceldom my entire life.

End my miserable life please fuck

I always see that girls talk about "embracing their femininity", society associates femininity with beauty and, wow, this makes me feel super sad and insecure. As an ugly woman, is impossible to find beauty or sensuality when I look at the mirror and I don´t know how to deal with this. I feel frustrated.

Anyone feeling the same?

(sorry for my bad grammar)

Lol another bad effect of an apple body shape aka ginormous huge boobs. Always wondered why my upper back was so rounded and had a small hump at the back of my neck - have been worried about it for quite a while. Googled in depth and its kyphosis or something called dowagers hump to be more precise. My back looks exactly like that. Its so ugly. As if i cannot be even uglier. I definitely know i purposely hunched a little in my formative years when i first started growing boobs because i was so embarrassed of them. And also just generally i guess the weight of them + not very good posture from the start = this. If i were to stand the way i do when pulling my shoulders back for good posture my boobs just become obscenely huge i cant do that. I have to get a boob reduction. I hate my body so fucking much. A huge upper body and twig legs. Its so fucking disgusting. I hate my life. Everything about me is gross.

Before the bullying got so severe I still thought i’d have my moment where i’d glow up and i’d eventually get a boyfriend or atleast have a few guys interested in me but that never happened. Guys go out of their way to tell me i’m incredibly unnatractive and it just kills me because if i had the opportunities a pretty girl did i’d be so prepared and like know what to do. Like id know how to deal with the attention and i’m just salty i’ll never get to experience that cuz i feel like i’d be so good at being one of those typical makeup/boy obsessed teenage girls who doesn’t have to worry about anything cuz people always throw themselves at her.

I don’t know if this post makes sense. But i was just so ready for my teen years and my first heartbreak but i’m just watching other people get into their 6th relationship of the year while i’m feeling completely rejected by the entirety of men

I used to think i was average and couldnt understand why i was constantly getting verbal abuse from people and bullied for my facial features and then the reality slowly started sinking in on me . Like there’s a very small part of me that still thinks i can’t be that bad but then i remember all the ways people have expressed disgust towards me/ made it clear they think i’m really unnatractive. People refusing to sit next to me(yelling at teachers so they don’t have to)/calling me pretty as a joke/people calling me witchface. Like the verbal abuse (and even physical at one point) was so bad but I genuinely still can’t understand why so many people have said i’m extremely physically unattractive when i never really thought i was that bad. I never thought my nose was big or that any part of me was abnormal or ugly untill everyone else would start constantly tell me and make fun of me for it. Like most of the time I see what everyone else sees but then i’ll wake up some days and look in the mirror and be genuinely confused.

My small brain cannot comprehend how I ended up ugly, meanwhile my whole family is attractive.

I was in a zoom call with my friends and the guys kept saying inappropriate shit to my gorgeous friend. They were 'jokingly' telling her to strip on camera and they'll pay her money. She sounded like she was close to tearing up and then she left the call.

Being pretty gives you an advantage in a lot of situations in life but shit like this makes me realize that I probably don't want any kind of attention from a man anyways.

I liked this guy ages ago and when i told him it never really went anywhere. We met up like once out of school but he seemed really disgusted to be alone with me, but like he was hiding it. We’d talk occasionally and he never brought up how i used to like him.

He stopped talking to me for like 5 months lol and then two days ago he messaged me saying how he’d been thinking for a long time how he genuinely did like me but then as soon as i said i liked him still he immediately changed his mind and said he didn’t know what he wanted and that he didn’t actually like me at all. and that he took it all back (all 7 paragraphs)

Why did he change his mind as soon as he realized it could be a reality? Because apparently I was just a backup option and he’d been telling himself he could get past not being attracted to me but when it actually came down to making it official he just backed out.

he literally kept changing his mind over and over saying he liked me one minute then saying he didn’t know what he wanted and he was sorry for messing w my feelings and that he felt bad. He’s ignoring me now and probably won’t talk to me for like half a year lol when he’ll message me because he’s bored and lonely.

I’m so tired of never being the girl guys actually like. Male friends use me for compliments because they’re insecure and lead me on but never actually want a relationship because i’m not socially acceptable enough to be seen with.

I totally accept that you can’t force someone to be attracted to you and that in a good relationship attraction is important but It just broke me lol.

Genuinely all my male friends use me as a practice gf (ie they use me emotionally but would never actually get with me because they’ve admitted they think i’m extremely physically unattractive )They use me as a therapist because they’re lonely relationship wise. They force themselves to try and like me but they can’t because i’m just that gross apparently.

This guy was basically forcing himself to like me because he was lonely and i was the only girl who’d ever payed attention to him and even then he still couldn’t get past my appearance. And it just hurts so much. He’d messaged me cuz he was freaking out about being single and when he realised what he’d done he just felt so disgusted apparnelty. (saw screenshots from a mutual friend)

Why can’t i be the girl guys actually want to be in a relationship with not the girl guys only talk to online because they can’t be seen with them.

I just don’t get why HE came to ME and then ended up rejecting me lol.

Any other ugly girls in a friend group with guys who has this happen to them a lot?

I am ALLERGIC to bullshit! I will get HIVES! If you're not hot, how ugly does that make ME?

I noticed this pattern at the beginning of the season when they introduce the couples. Every time the couple is an American man/foreign woman, and he talks about how he met his fiancée, 90% of the time it’s like “I saw this super hot girl, and I knew she had to be my wife because she was so gorgeous and had a nice ass. We talked for a month, and then I flew to her country and proposed because I was in love.” Like LOOOOL men’s love really does not go any deeper than that.

These men are literally ready to empty their bank accounts and marry someone they have nothing in common with just because she’s hot. Then for the rest of the season they continue to let their Stacy Eastern European/South American wife walk all over them. I often see people criticizing the women for “using” the men for money/a green card, but I support them taking everything these shallow men have.

its just not in their realm of consciousness. like i dont think anyone wants to accept that this could be your reality and love is ephemeral. it seems like so many people live in a glass casing. they dont understand the impact of looks. i dont think they could understand the consistent being ignored everywhere,being treated like a nuisance when you haven’t even done anything, being mocked for your appearance by boys, being estranged from girls your age, being afraid of going anywhere,etc. people spout the same bullshit of ‘just be confident’ or ‘love yourself’ or ‘don’t listen to the haters’ but everywhere i go there’s evidence i shouldn’t be alive. i have this entire briefcase of evidence for the case that i just shouldn’t be here. and i don’t want to be. im just over it. i want out. no one should live like this. absolutely no one is equipped to live like this and deal with this much rejection. just how tbh?? it doesn’t make sense. i don’t know how i stumbled into hell. i wish i wasn’t human. i can’t deal

My best friend looks just like a porcelain doll

She's White, even skin with no imperfections at all, size 0 with nice curves in all the right places, tiny nose, huge eyes literally perfect and I'm... Completely the opposite

I'm brown, morbidly obese, big nose, hormonal acne and scars all over my body.

Being her friend in high school was great the first year, we clicked immediately because we have a lot of things in common, we were inseparable, everything was perfect until I started noticing the way people treated each of us

The thing is that I find myself comparing my looks with her all the time and It's mentally exhausting for me, i get really sad and jealous because no amount of effort, makeup, weight loss would make me look as pretty as her, I feel like the worst friend in the world but I can't help feeling this way (I got bullied growing up because of my looks), I get so jealous, boys will literally do anything for her, teachers always complimented her looks, she gets away with everything, I don't want to ruin our relationship because I'm her only friend! (She's the kind of pretty girl other girls feel threatened by and they're really mean to her)

She's in college now and she has no friends there, girls as expected don't like her and boys are disrespectful + shes stressed because she's living alone in a new city (she even ended up in the hospital once because of it)

I wish she could make new true friends so I could walk away from her life for my mental health, i know it's stupid but I literally didn't get into college because I was so scared of people judging my looks, i became agoraphobic and extremely depressed, i feel like I have to work on myself so I can be the friend she deserves but at the same time my stupid jealous mind resents her existence because I feel like nothing compared to her

I hate feeling like this, shes a good friend and she has never make any comments about my physical appearance.

Everything sucks

I don't want to hurt her but having her in my life hurts me

What should I do?

Have you watched gossip girl? Well I'm kinda like blair always putting effort, wanting to be respected and a little jealous of serena that gets away with everything with no effort at all and she's always in the spotlight.

Sorry I really like gg haha

So anyways... help?

I just hate hate hate my body. So much. And no suggestions on plastic surgery because im not even going to touch it or consider it.

Im super skinny, flat all over. Wide shoulders small hips. I litetally just want big boobs or big hips.

does ugliness impede the formation of friendships bc i think so.

i have hobbies and interests. i have goals and dreams. i am curious and passionate. i try to be kind and aware of things. i can be a little eccentric(but try to to be humorous about it) and have flaws but everyone does. but i really think my looks are whats stopping me. ive been told im intelligent, kind and really interesting but it doesnt really matter i guess bc i cant even make friends. ive put myself out there countless amounts of times but people just end up talking shit about me or ignoring me deadass. idk how someone’s supposed to go thru this. i swear im not some sort of monster. like i try to be extroverted and aware and considerate and interesting but no one gives af. i really think im ugly and thats why tbh. theres no other explanation lmao. honestly it feels terrible and i wish the pain could end. like whatever i give NEVER gets reciprocated and it makes me wanna die. im sorry but it really does. its just so painful and idk how anyone’s life can be like this. getting ignored by most people and treated like a nuisance. like why are humans so superficial. wish i could at least have friends. ive seen ppl who legitimately have dogshit personalities and are literally evil and have friends. it doesnt really make sense to me and makes me angry.

Thoughts on how they are portrayed?

Would you be interested?

We have long had offshoots and private parties on both are main subs

It would be a meeting place outside of Reddit so your accounts wouldn't be at risk, you could go there for information, and available 24/7

What could go wrong

If you had access to this sub, 24/7, but will feedback from any random femcel (and associates) and less rules, what would you like to see.

FYI to those put of the loop, this is Giga.

Crush is dating a Stacylite and I can't seem to get over it.

I've been liking him a couple weeks now and I listen to music thinking of us and then I check his social media and realize that reality is harsh. His sister called me ugly to my face when we went out but she likes his girlfriend.

I had this friend in high school, she was like a 10. She was popular and stuff, seeing her you'd think she has the perfect life. But we started hanging out and she told me some things that guys have done to her.

One guy kissed her all of a sudden while he knew she had a long term relationship with someone else. And when she was hanging out with the popular guys, she told me she felt like they were assaulting her emotionally, cause they'd treat her like their b and they were super entitled to her. They'd make her sit on their laps, grab her in inappropriate ways etc. and claim it was just being friendly. When we went into a school trip, the same group of guys put a bet that they'd have group sex with her and shamelessly told people about it.

I didn't know all of that cause I didn't have any connections to these guys. And I'm glad I didn't. But I always remember telling my femcel friends how I'd sell my soul to look like her and they'd agree and say the same. But I didn't know what her life was like. She seemed popular, happy, pretty, confident. At some point all her friends left her and she started hanging out with me. I was a loner and she approached me. We became good friends and she taught me many things about guys. No wonder she was a walking male encyclopedia, she started dating at 12.

Heroin addict here.

Knowing that others will see how I look when I’m out makes me so upset. Catching a glance of reflection in the mirror is enough to ruin my whole day. I’m so nervous about the stares of judgement I get from good looking people. Being stuck in this body makes everything so much harder than it has to be.

i used to be suicidal (still am, just on and off) but now, i literally dont give a fuck about anything. im so so tired of dealing with how i look. i can either rope or just live with it, but i got no clue how to just deal and live with it unless im numb. everything triggers me, i can barely focus on school, and im just done at this point. being ugly is such a fucking curse

Sorry if I offend anyone, don't mean to.

there have been multiple recent posts of some of your art pieces and i love them so much no matter what it is. it makes me so happy when i scroll and i see a drawing or sketch or painting made by fellow femcels idk it makes this place a little less miserable. thank you for your talents! <3

I watch my guy friends and it’s disgusting. If a girl is pretty they treat her like a Queen. Even if she has has a bad personality they don’t even care. They might not marry her but they at least want to sleep with her. But they completely ignore women who are less attractive. It doesn’t matter if the less attractive women have better personalities.

Because of religion coping, I am still a virgin (not that anyone has ever asked me). Am I a volcel if I refuse to have sex before marriage, or am I still a femcel if no one wants to be in a relationship with me? I heard some people say that having sex can make a man fall in love, but it sounds like cope to me.

And i mean realistically not a dream scenario where you find a cute young innocent boy to fall in love with you who treats you like a princess and isn’t a predator

I mean a regular moid.. I honestly don’t think so

Even if i looksmaxxed I don’t think i will ever be able to be with one of them they’re like the enemy they’re so cringey they’re so immature they think they’re smarter than they are they think highly of their pathetic useless penises they stink most of the time they don’t clean themselves properly they have pubic hair all over their bodies

And that’s what you’ll get from a regular moid so not even an attractive body they talk about post cum clarity but women never talk about it from their pov i’m sure it’s atrocious also they don’t even get the cum part so it’s a post disappointment clarity

I have no idea how these women do it if only there weren’t that many pickmes there’s girls who put up with shit stains on their beds ffs

How and why

I've always suspected 1 or 2 of my posts were probably linked back somewhere else, just because I'm a frequent poster and I'm a lil controversial cynic. Today I found a forum that screenshoted 1 of my posts, which confirmed my theory.

I don't think I'm all that unattractive. I am petite and am in pretty decent shape. My skin isn't great and I don't have any particularly striking features. I have an okay butt, but I am pretty much straight up flat. I think I'm just remarkably "unremarkable". People don't recoil from me in disgust, they just.. don't really notice me that much.

I can't help but to get somewhat fixated on the idea that, I could keep all of those traits exactly as is and I could be as equally shy as awkward as I currently am BUT, if I somehow woke up tomorrow with noticeably big boobs, that pretty much most of my problems would get so much better. My feeling is that you can be as ugly as you want or really really overweight, but as long as you have really big boobs, that's literally enough to be lusted after and desired. I know for a fact I'm "cuter" than girls like her: https://www.instagram.com/cherylubera/?hl=en and I'm in way better shape than a lot of girls on IG, but since they have gigantic breasts, they are treated like absolute 10/10 Stacys. I can't over the fact that one single trait seems like it can absolutely override everything else like that.

I feel like this would help my romantic relationships a lot obviously, but also that the added confidence would just help me out in life/my career in general. I might be wrong and there might be some bustier girls on here who would disagree with me. but that's really how it feels from where I am. And yes, I'm aware that breast implants exist. I'm paying off a stupid amount of student loans and BA is just not something that is even something I can consider unless something dramatically changes for me.